Recently my best friend betrayed me. Main story started with it.
I’m friends with Donald(fake name) since school days. We always helped to each other and always trusted to each other. I always helped him with guestions that need intellectual skills, and he helped me with guestions that need social skills. I really trusted him, he always was sayin that he forever will be human and never be asshole as society. Couple days ago me no way wouldn’t believe that he would betray me, because i thought even in critical situation he can be last hope.
Previous year we joined one collective. I also joined, because that organization had money and same targets as mine. They’re collective in my city was toxic, but they’re superiors(they’re in other city) can finance mine projects, because we had general priorities.
One day i showed myself, my skills, and guys noticed me and i joined organizators club. In organizators club was only some guys from collective and leader of our city(she’s not superior). And in that organizators club was girlfriend of my best friend.
But one problem, while i tried to develop our project, our collective, organizators in secret chat only made gossips about other members, made ridiculous stickers from their photos. Donald’s girlfriend also did, but she also ridiculed her boyfriend. I readed it. But i didn’t answer. I just decided to show it to Donald. Before it, Donald gave promise that he won’t share about it to nobody.
Donald break his promise and he send our chat correspondence to general chat where there all of our collective. And he told that is me the one who send it to Donald.
I got expelled from organizators club and everyone from that club, started to hate me. And there was guy Roman(fake name). He was number one of spreading gossips. In my screenshots that i gave, was his messages too.
One day i came to our place. And in night, when i leaving that place, some guys from our collective stopped me and brought me to back of the multi-storey buildings. I was in clean clothes, so i wasn’t wanna fight. But they’re afraided that i could write a witness statement, so they’re didn’t beat me. But Roman told me not to come to our collective, but if i will, he beat me with guys who brought me here.
I think Roman just couldn’t take responsibility for messages that he send and blamed me for all guilts, because i exposed him.
I think my big mistake is that i trusted to my best friend.
Am I The Asshole? I exposed guy who spreaded gossips, but i was in secret chat where i wasn’t shouldn’t to do it.
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Recently my best friend betrayed me. Main story started with it.
I’m friends with Donald(fake name) since school days. We always helped to each other and always trusted to each other. I always helped him with guestions that need intellectual skills, and he helped me with guestions that need social skills. I really trusted him, he always was sayin that he forever will be human and never be asshole as society. Couple days ago me no way wouldn’t believe that he would betray me, because i thought even in critical situation he can be last hope.
Previous year we joined one collective. I also joined, because that organization had money and same targets as mine. They’re collective in my city was toxic, but they’re superiors(they’re in other city) can finance mine projects, because we had general priorities.
One day i showed myself, my skills, and guys noticed me and i joined organizators club. In organizators club was only some guys from collective and leader of our city(she’s not superior). And in that organizators club was girlfriend of my best friend.
But one problem, while i tried to develop our project, our collective, organizators in secret chat only made gossips about other members, made ridiculous stickers from their photos. Donald’s girlfriend also did, but she also ridiculed her boyfriend. I readed it. But i didn’t answer. I just decided to show it to Donald. Before it, Donald gave promise that he won’t share about it to nobody.
Donald break his promise and he send our chat correspondence to general chat where there all of our collective. And he told that is me the one who send it to Donald.
I got expelled from organizators club and everyone from that club, started to hate me. And there was guy Roman(fake name). He was number one of spreading gossips. In my screenshots that i gave, was his messages too.
One day i came to our place. And in night, when i leaving that place, some guys from our collective stopped me and brought me to back of the multi-storey buildings. I was in clean clothes, so i wasn’t wanna fight. But they’re afraided that i could write a witness statement, so they’re didn’t beat me. But Roman told me not to come to our collective, but if i will, he beat me with guys who brought me here.
I think Roman just couldn’t take responsibility for messages that he send and blamed me for all guilts, because i exposed him.
I think my big mistake is that i trusted to my best friend.
Am I The Asshole? I exposed guy who spreaded gossips, but i was in secret chat where i wasn’t shouldn’t to do it.
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> 1) I exposed secret chat
2) Because that was secret chat where was there trust in me
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Valuable life lesson learned here bro – nothing is a secret once shared, and never put anything in writing you’re not willing for others to read. Once you sent that info to Donald you had no control over what he did with it.