About two weeks ago my sister had a friend over at our house. It was a slunný day, so they spent afternoon in our garden with pool. The friend lives in a flat. I came to greet her but then I kinda stayed. She had her one year old son with her and she is interesting person to talk with. I spent my days at work where you can’t interact with people in any meaningful way. Everyone seemed to be ok with the fact that I was in the garden with them.
Yesterday, my whole family went shopping, we argued about something, and suddenly my sister mentioned that she hated the fact I was there when she had a friend over, and that she thought I would just say hello and leave them. She was apparently angry at me, but didn’t say it at time because she said she didn’t know how. So am I the asshole in this situation?
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About two weeks ago my sister had a friend over at our house. It was a slunný day, so they spent afternoon in our garden with pool. The friend lives in a flat. I came to greet her but then I kinda stayed. She had her one year old son with her and she is interesting person to talk with. I spent my days at work where you can’t interact with people in any meaningful way. Everyone seemed to be ok with the fact that I was in the garden with them.
Yesterday, my whole family went shopping, we argued about something, and suddenly my sister mentioned that she hated the fact I was there when she had a friend over, and that she thought I would just say hello and leave them. She was apparently angry at me, but didn’t say it at time because she said she didn’t know how. So am I the asshole in this situation?
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> I was hanging with my sister’s friend against her wishes. AITA?
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hard to say without more history/details. You both live in the house, so I don’t think you should have to hide yourself. On the other hand, I could imagine if I wanted to have one on one time with a friend that it would be disappointing if that ended up getting cut into for the whole time we were hanging out.
Your sister is a big girl. If she didn’t want you in the area with her and her friend, she has a mouth. She can tell you. NTA.