hi I was recently invited by a friend at the very last minute to watch the new demon slayer movie with another friend of ours ,was hesitant at first but still agreed on watching so we went the next day and watched the said movie.
after the movie got over I put a story of the movie and my friends also reposted it
My guy friend saw it and is basically pissed at me for not inviting him to the plan when I had absolutely no idea that he was also interested.
He texted one of the guys and asked him why he wasn’t invited and has been ignoring me ever since
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hi I was recently invited by a friend at the very last minute to watch the new demon slayer movie with another friend of ours ,was hesitant at first but still agreed on watching so we went the next day and watched the said movie.
after the movie got over I put a story of the movie and my friends also reposted it
My guy friend saw it and is basically pissed at me for not inviting him to the plan when I had absolutely no idea that he was also interested.
He texted one of the guys and asked him why he wasn’t invited and has been ignoring me ever since
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> because I was a bad friend who did not know what Mt friend liked and I think I should’ve atleast informed him about the fact that I was watching a movie with them
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NTA. It’s important to be able to have individual friendships even with members of a larger group. Not everyone needs to be invited to everything. Expecting to be is a massive red flag to me.
NTA
Who invites all their friends to everything they do every time they do something.
If I t was a big party, it might be a little hurtful. Just everyday plans, sound like they are really needy.
Not to mention that you were the invited guest, and it can be considered rude to ask for another person to come. It put the person inviting you on the spot.
NTA
And that dude is not the friend you thought he was…
Getting pissy because someone you know did something without you is incredibly self-centered behavior.
This guy needs to grow up, and you don’t need to feel the least bit bad about having done something where he wasn’t present – and you should probably do so more often.
NTA. You didn’t know that he would have been interested; besides, you were not organizer, so it was not your place to invite him.
You were not the organizer of this event. “Organizer” may be overstating the effort… instigator? If buddy’s BVDs are in a twist over this that’s his problem.
NTA