English is not my first language, sorry in advance. So me (24) and my husband (27) had a plan that we will start feeding solid food to our baby around 5 to 6 months. I always wanted that the first time we would be the ones giving the baby food, taking some pictures and videos to capture the first moments. The first moments are very precious to me because I couldn’t have most of them. When my baby boy was born he was in the NICU and I was on the operating table so i missed his first bottle, first bath, firs dipper and I know it sound weird but for me these memories are very precious and I lost them.
Starting solids was supposed to be my and baby’s first special moment, but now I’m crying my eyes out because just few hours ago I found out that my in laws gave him food, also not just them but at some moment before my SIL also gave him food. Their pressure to give him food started when he was 3 months old, but I was firm on my and my husbands decision, unfortunately that didn’t stop them, at that time they gave him to lick a gummy worm, to say I was furious is underestimated and when I told my husband he just didn’t care and told me the were joking.
After that the persistently were trying to shove food to him, but every time I was telling them politely to stop, today was no different, after telling my SIL not to give food and physically stopping her I left my baby in my in laws care for few hours until I do my SIL nails, during that time my MIL called and happily informed us that she gave my baby a cookie, I WAS FURIOUS.
After finishing doing SIL nails I went to pick up my baby, I said nothing, got my baby ready for the ride home and after coming home I informed them via text that I don’t want to see them in my home for further notice, we will be visiting them but I will not be leaving my baby alone with any of them until they regain my trust or my anger subsides. So AITA for not wanting to see or talk to them?