Back in March my dad had a severe fall and my stepbrother and his family were living in his home. They let him set for 3 days disoriented. I live 16 hours away and he called my cousin at 3 am and left a very garbled VM. I had her go check on him and he didn’t even know who she was (and she is one of his favorite nieces). After a few weeks he insisted on going back home and fell again (brain surgery, stroke after surgery, a little over a month in ICU he was sent to LTC.
The family has been evicted –yet they keep showing up on security footage and my bipolar/scizo brother let’s them in. Bringing laundry from 8 ppl, cooking food in the oven. Oh my dad gave them the house that they live in.
Over the years they have stole thousands of dollars from him. Literally, 10k once and any meds they can get high from. Plus scrapped anything and everything –included the radiator off an antique tractor.
I was told that I’m being selfish. Yet I pay my bills and don’t squat and swadder from the elderly. Step sister says she ain’t stole nothing recently (cameras say otherwise) plus she covered up 2 of the camera inside the house. I did put her in jail about 6 years ago cause she stole 4 laptops from my dad.
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Back in March my dad had a severe fall and my stepbrother and his family were living in his home. They let him set for 3 days disoriented. I live 16 hours away and he called my cousin at 3 am and left a very garbled VM. I had her go check on him and he didn’t even know who she was (and she is one of his favorite nieces). After a few weeks he insisted on going back home and fell again (brain surgery, stroke after surgery, a little over a month in ICU he was sent to LTC.
The family has been evicted –yet they keep showing up on security footage and my bipolar/scizo brother let’s them in. Bringing laundry from 8 ppl, cooking food in the oven. Oh my dad gave them the house that they live in.
Over the years they have stole thousands of dollars from him. Literally, 10k once and any meds they can get high from. Plus scrapped anything and everything –included the radiator off an antique tractor.
I was told that I’m being selfish. Yet I pay my bills and don’t squat and swadder from the elderly. Step sister says she ain’t stole nothing recently (cameras say otherwise) plus she covered up 2 of the camera inside the house. I did put her in jail about 6 years ago cause she stole 4 laptops from my dad.
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> AITA for telling my step siblings if I see them on cameras at my dad’s house– I’m calling the police.
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Unclear post. You say they squat on your dad’s property yet say that your dad gave them the house they live in?
If the house is legally not theirs, then you call the police everytime you see them on the cameras and charged for trespassing. If it is theirs, then leave them alone, they are on their property wheather you like it or not.
NTA Go to the police immediately. Get evidence. They should be in jail.
NTA and get an order that they can’t come on the property. Move the brother elsewhere and close everything off.
> Oh my dad gave them the house that they live in.
INFO: How? Was this simply verbal permission to live there rent free, or was there a deed transfer?
YTA. They’re your step-siblings, they have the right to step on your property. Fuck your dad.
NTA Time to call the police again and change the locks. If you own the house I’d make your brother leave too because he can’t be trusted any more than they can.