AITA for telling my partner that my step daughter needs to make her own meals?

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I (F46) have been with my partner (M52) for 11 years. We have shared custody of his two children (F17) and (M15) and also share custody of one of my children (M15) my 17 year old son lives with us full time. My issue is that my partners daughter has huge food issues. She has no diversity in her food, won’t try anything new and we basically live off chicken and mince when she is here. She won’t eat fruit and only has very basic vegetables (carrot, lettuce and cucumber). I’m sooooo sick of the same meals every week. I can’t even eat the spaghetti bolognese anymore, and everything I cook for the family is fatty, and horrible. My kids are sick of it and so am I. I have asked my partner dozens of times over the years to get her into some food therapy program, but he has just ignored my requests. AITA for telling my partner that she needs to sort her own meals out so that we can eat normally again?

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