AITA My boyfriend 18 M and I 19 F were having a conversation and I brought up the fact that the guys he hangs out with make me feel like they do not respect our relationship because they will send him pictures or videos (reels) of other women. I stated that if guys do not respect a stranger and are okay with sending him videos or pictures of other women. Do they respect us and our relationship or other women, if they expect you to be okay with seeing those things. Especially since they go out of their way to look at those things and send them to you. He brought up the fact that women put themselves on the internet to be paid so guys look at them for them to get paid. I said yes some women do that for income but it’s disrespectful of your friends to show you that while you are in a relationship. I brought up the fact that it’s okay to find women or people attractive but not to go out of your way to look at other women in a sexual way. I’m not mad at my boyfriend but I’m angry that his friends do not see an issue with sending him pictures or videos of other women.
AITA for explaining that what his friends do piss me off, since it feels like they don’t value the fact that my boyfriend is in a committed relationship?
PSA my boyfriend respects me and our relationship.