I (27F) have a (34M) husband. We got married 6 years ago and we were together for 3 years prior to that.
When we first met, he was very fit and quite the gym rat. however, since our wedding he has gained over 225 pounds and is still adding to that number. He is not the man i fell in love with.
Every day when i come home from work, the kitchen is trashed. He cant clean up for himself anymore and needs assistance with many daily tasks. It hurts to see how much he has lost himself.
And honestly, i’m getting quite tired. i didn’t sign up for this! it’s like i’m working 2 jobs. last week, when i served him divorce papers, he blew up on me. he said how could i do this to him, and accused me of being fat-phobic.
since then, his entire side of the family has been harassing me nonstop. theyve been telling everyone i know that i’m a terrible person and it’s really starting to get to me. So, AITAH?