So… last year I finally met up in person with a group of online friends I’d grown super close with. We bonded over our weird niche jobs and had been FaceTiming daily for months. One of the girls (let’s call her G) had never given off any weird vibes before — she was super fun, chill, and seemed like someone I could see being close to for a long time. Some of us had already met since they lived closer, but not everyone. We planned a week-long trip together. It sounded like a dream.
Spoiler: it wasn’t.
From the jump, G made everything about her. She didn’t pay for a single thing (literally mooched off another friend the entire trip saying “she was broke”), refused to help with anything, and acted like doing anything remotely fun was a chore. Every time we tried to go out or do something cool, she pouted, guilt-tripped, or dragged the energy down.
We all tiptoed around her to avoid drama. But it built up. Fast.
Then came the final night: the Two Hot Takes tour show. Me and one of the other girls were pumped — we’re longtime fans and had been counting down to this. We’re in line, we meet the hosts (!!!), and we’re genuinely having the best time. Meanwhile, G is standing off to the side like she’s at a funeral. Won’t talk, won’t engage, just fully killing the vibe.
And then plot twist — we find out she’s been trash-talking us. Like right next to us. One of the girls saw her mid-rant.
At that point, the friend who’d been financially supporting her all week tried to handle it kindly. She texted G, suggesting they head back so the rest of us could enjoy the night without the drama. No response. So she gently brings it up in person.
And that’s when G snaps.
She yells in her face, calls her a bitch, causes a full-blown scene, and storms out of the bar like she’s the main character in a teen drama. It was humiliating, loud, and completely uncalled for.
After that night, I messaged her and told her we couldn’t be friends anymore. I cut her off cold. I couldn’t justify staying friends with someone who acted like that all week and then exploded when asked to show the tiniest bit of respect.
So, Reddit… AITAH for ending the friendship after what happened at THT live show?
Comments
Backup of the post’s body: So… last year I finally met up in person with a group of online friends I’d grown super close with. We bonded over our weird niche jobs and had been FaceTiming daily for months. One of the girls (let’s call her G) had never given off any weird vibes before — she was super fun, chill, and seemed like someone I could see being close to for a long time. Some of us had already met since they lived closer, but not everyone. We planned a week-long trip together. It sounded like a dream.
Spoiler: it wasn’t.
From the jump, G made everything about her. She didn’t pay for a single thing (literally mooched off another friend the entire trip saying “she was broke”), refused to help with anything, and acted like doing anything remotely fun was a chore. Every time we tried to go out or do something cool, she pouted, guilt-tripped, or dragged the energy down.
We all tiptoed around her to avoid drama. But it built up. Fast.
Then came the final night: the Two Hot Takes tour show. Me and one of the other girls were pumped — we’re longtime fans and had been counting down to this. We’re in line, we meet the hosts (!!!), and we’re genuinely having the best time. Meanwhile, G is standing off to the side like she’s at a funeral. Won’t talk, won’t engage, just fully killing the vibe.
And then plot twist — we find out she’s been trash-talking us. Like right next to us. One of the girls saw her mid-rant.
At that point, the friend who’d been financially supporting her all week tried to handle it kindly. She texted G, suggesting they head back so the rest of us could enjoy the night without the drama. No response. So she gently brings it up in person.
And that’s when G snaps.
She yells in her face, calls her a bitch, causes a full-blown scene, and storms out of the bar like she’s the main character in a teen drama. It was humiliating, loud, and completely uncalled for.
After that night, I messaged her and told her we couldn’t be friends anymore. I cut her off cold. I couldn’t justify staying friends with someone who acted like that all week and then exploded when asked to show the tiniest bit of respect.
So, Reddit… AITAH for ending the friendship after what happened at THT live show?
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Thanks for submitting to the Two Hot Takes Podcast Subreddit! We’d like to remind you that all posts are subject to being featured in an episode of the Two Hot Takes Podcast. If your story is featured you’ll
get a nifty flair change to let you know and we’ll drop a link so you can see our host’s take on your story.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
It’s giving ‘main character energy’ with none of the self-awareness. You did the right thing.
As someone who was on the trip, there was MUCH more happening. The needy friend was treating one of the girls as a makeshift mother and it was excruciating and exhausting. Me and OP were the ones who were SO excited for the 2 hot takes show and I literally cried meeting Morgan and everyone😭😭
NTA. She sounds like a high school mean girl and make the rest like her minion. I wonder does she has even a tiny little bit of shame or sanity? Because from the story you’ve told here she seems to not having both. Ewh
1/10 Try a different AI next time