She came to my house yesterday, with her boyfriend (for a boys night the guys had for watching a game!!!)
I am pregnant, and she knows I am. She came in and hugged me for quite a few minutes. I had no idea she was sick, and afterwards I sat down on my dinning table away from the boys and she came and I saw her face and I was like are you sick? And she got all nervous like um yes but it’s almost gone. I just answered her like, I can’t get sick, I can’t take medicines or herbal teas, we are in a closed space…
She sat with the boys and a few minutes later I left to my room. I was shocked because she’s just not a friend, she’s supposed to be my best friend and in my mind she should be looking after me…
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She came to my house yesterday, with her boyfriend (for a boys night the guys had for watching a game!!!)
I am pregnant, and she knows I am. She came in and hugged me for quite a few minutes. I had no idea she was sick, and afterwards I sat down on my dinning table away from the boys and she came and I saw her face and I was like are you sick? And she got all nervous like um yes but it’s almost gone. I just answered her like, I can’t get sick, I can’t take medicines or herbal teas, we are in a closed space…
She sat with the boys and a few minutes later I left to my room. I was shocked because she’s just not a friend, she’s supposed to be my best friend and in my mind she should be looking after me…
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> I left to my room without saying anything else and told her it was a bad idea, my husband told me she left like 20 minutes after I went to my room. She didn’t text me or anything and neither have I.
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Absolutely NTA. WTF is wrong with her? I would be livid. Kick her right out.
I’m with you. She had no business coming over to your house sick. NTA.
NTA. She’s no friend!
NTA.
I’d send her a text later when you calm down and explain why you were so upset and that you felt really blindsided by her actions. Give her a chance to apologize and make it right to you. This was incredibly selfish and thoughtless on her part.
Edit: If she’s sick, there is a good chance her BF is sick as well or carrying over some germs and could pass it around. IMO – neither of them should have come over.