I don’t really know how to start this but my mother has cheated on my stepfather more than once. We recently got into a fight where I openly told her that I think her cheating on him was a hoe move and that she’s an asshole. She was furious, and told me that the only asshole move she made was telling me about it. For context she told me all about their hook up. AND I MEAN DETAILS. What makes it worse was that the person she cheated with is my soccer coach who’s getting married soon. The same man who’s laying it down on my mother is my soccer coach. Anyways, it ended turning into a full blown argument and I threatened to tell my stepfather about it. She called me the f slur with other colorful language. The other day she told me she’s sending nudes and trying to find other guys. No one in my family or step family knows about this. What should I do. WIBTA if I tell my stepfather? AITA for calling my mother a hoe?
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I don’t really know how to start this but my mother has cheated on my stepfather more than once. We recently got into a fight where I openly told her that I think her cheating on him was a hoe move and that she’s an asshole. She was furious, and told me that the only asshole move she made was telling me about it. For context she told me all about their hook up. AND I MEAN DETAILS. What makes it worse was that the person she cheated with is my soccer coach who’s getting married soon. The same man who’s laying it down on my mother is my soccer coach. Anyways, it ended turning into a full blown argument and I threatened to tell my stepfather about it. She called me the f slur with other colorful language. The other day she told me she’s sending nudes and trying to find other guys. No one in my family or step family knows about this. What should I do. WIBTA if I tell my stepfather? AITA for calling my mother a hoe?
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> I believe I might be the asshole because I called my mother a hoe and an asshole. That action could be judged because she’s my mother. That action could make me an asshole because no one should say that to their mom
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Nta your mother shouldn’t be be telling you the details of her love life even if she wasn’t betraying your stepfather. Nta if you tell him
YTA. You backed your stepdad over your mom? Shame on you.
NTA
What kind of narcissist tells their teenager about their sex life? You should not be bearing the weight of that knowledge. NTA.
This is as believable as the rapture scheduled for today. Nice one. Mommy tells you details – cuz that’s what mommies do.
1 Karma. YTA