My sister declined my wedding invite last year because she disapproved of my partner (we’re a same-sex couple). Now she’s getting married and expects a generous gift. I declined, saying it didn’t feel right. She called me petty. AITAH?
AITAH for not giving my sister a wedding gift because she didn’t come to mine due to ‘moral reasons’?
r/AITAH
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Get her a pride flag.
“That’s pretty wild, it’s the same day I wash my partners hair. Can’t come, shampoo is expensive”. 😂
You’re definitely not the asshole here, actions have consequences
If that’s truly the only reason she didn’t come to your wedding then NTA, and I’m surprised you’re even considering going to her wedding, let alone getting her a gift.
no, u’re not the a-hole. she rejected ur wedding over who u love — it’s fair not to celebrate hers. that’s not petty, that’s holding boundaries
NTA, she’s lucky ur still coming
Is your partner invited to her wedding? Has she shown any regret? Even if she has she’s still not entitled to shit.
I can’t imagine expecting a present from someone who didn’t respect me enough to celebrate with me for the same event.
She’s got a wild imagination that it makes sense to her.
NTA
Gift her a beautiful framed wedding photo of yours to compensate for her having missed it. The frame should be rainbow.
NTA
NTA, The pot called the kettle black 🤣🤦🏻♀️.
So the only reason she wants you at her wedding is to collect the gift? She’s already shown you how much she cares about you. Return the favour and don’t attend
NTA. She’s a homophobic piece of shit. She deserves nothing.
I wouldn’t consider a gift, nor would I go.You owe her nothing.
Sometimes being an asshole is fun
How did the generous gift come up? Did she ask you directly for something?