She cheated on me with my former friend. I immediately abandoned both of them.
Her mom messaged me on FB, and told me that my ex was in the hospital. My former friend allegedly beat her.
I told her that it’s not my concern, and blocked her.
Why would I feel bad for her, a cheater? My friend thinks I was a little harsh, but otherwise agreed.
Edit: Yes, “allegedly” is what I’m using. Although I wish they both would rot in a ditch, I’m a supporter of innocence until proven guilty.
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You absolutely should not feel bad. She made her choice and well, consequences caught up to her
Well, no woman (or man or child) deserves to end up in the hospital because of a bad choice in someone to sleep with. Domestic violence is never the answer.
That said, I cannot even conceive how your ex’s mother thought to inform you at all after a break up.
This is called FAFO. Sometimes you just walk away.
But please have a little sympathy for her mother, who is watching her child’s life implode? If you had a relationship with her mother, it would be kind to tell her you’re sorry this happened and you hope things will get better.
You don’t have to mean it. But it’s the kind thing to do.
She is your ex so you have no responsibility to continue the relationship for any reason. NTA.
It’s horrible he beat her up but that doesn’t change the fact that she left you for him. NTA.
Well played