Aitah for throwinf my sisters BF out?

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i m 21 had my birthday last weekend and my sister brought her boyfriend hes absolutely bad with alc. He was acting like a jerk got drunk asf and started yelling at my fam and friends then he puked in my apartment and wanted to drink more cause he has no job and is kinda sad abt it i told him to leave cause i didnt want more drama my sister got mad and yelled at me that i was disrespectful cause its her boyfriend and that his life is so hard bc of no job but i kinda think i did the right thing cause i dont want someone trashing my place and insulting my friends just cause he cant handle alcohol my sister still not talking to me

Comments

  1. AmeliaNightCode Avatar

    NTA you protected your space. Being sad isn’t an excuse to ruin your birthday and disrespect everyone.

  2. MistressJacklynHyde Avatar

    At least you removed the slur from this one.

  3. daintynixieeeX Avatar

    You were right to protect your space and guests. No one should ruin your birthday or your home. Your sister needs to understand boundaries, not excuse bad behavior.

  4. umaboo Avatar

    NTA, good job for protecting your peace and loved ones.

    sister is d*ckmatized. She’ll get over it.

  5. RJack151 Avatar

    NTA. Let sis know that next year she is not invited.

  6. mcmiaka Avatar

    He was drunk, rude, and puked in your apartment? Nah. Your sister should be apologizing for bringing a walking disaster to your birthday

  7. chez2202 Avatar

    NTA.

    Ask your sister how it’s disrespectful to throw someone out of YOUR apartment when they just puked all over it and verbally abused your family at YOUR birthday party?

    They are the disrespectful ones.

  8. Much-Introduction-72 Avatar

    Your sister is dating a loser. You’re NTA for her poor choices.

  9. Echo-Azure Avatar

    “WELL YOU CLEAN UP HIS BARF THEN, SUSAN!!! Or at least clean it up before you go, if he’s going to pull this shit in my apartment.”

  10. Super_Reading2048 Avatar

    NTA make it clear to your sister that her bf is not welcome in your home. Any future boyfriends of hers you will have to meet first at other events before inviting them to your home. The sister should be mortified by her bf’s behavior.

  11. adult_child86 Avatar

    NTA Please use punctuation.

  12. Quantumercifier Avatar

    Your sister is a loser and will lose even more for being with this puking loser.