I broke up with her the night I made the post. It has been horrendous so far her friend cursed me out last night at 11PM for how I had bagged up her stuff instead of putting it in boxes despite getting 2 texts from her and he friend demanding all of her stuff be out front and ready by Monday night. I have been doing it slowly and told her that I will get it done when I get it done. I made sure to text her friend and say if she comes on my properly again that I am calling the police and she will have to send someone else for the rest of her stuff. She will get no more updates from me about her stuff being picked up. I have taken her off of all my plans and gotten a separate bank account. I have made sure to change the locks as another redditor suggested in case she copied my key. I now have a completely refreshed bedroom and I learned the extent of all of this. I found pizza crust, entire hot dogs, preztels, chips, hundreds of soda bottles, etc under my bed when I deep cleaned. Everything was disgusting so I have cleaned the room top to bottom and gotten brand new furniture. All of her stuff will be gone from my house by tomorrow night. I know some folks wanted an update.
Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/Ek8A4fSmpN
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bro you did the right thing fr. she sounds mad disrespectful if she left hot dogs and soda bottles under your bed wtf 💀 glad you changed the locks too, never know what ppl are capable of when they’re petty af
NTA. You saved yourself. Be glad that she didn’t birth your child or you would’ve been attached with her for next two decades. So disgusting. People use mental health excuse these days to justify everything..
Treat yourself and focus on your career and health
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Your happiness matters too. If you’re not feeling it, it’s time to have an honest conversation.
Bro u def did the right thing. If someone leaves hot dogs and pizza crusts under the bed?? That’s not just messy, that’s straight up nasty. You dodged a bullet. Good for you for cleaning up and starting fresh, fr
Good for you. Sounds like you dodged a hoarder flavored emotional hurricane. Enjoy your clean space and peace of mind
You did the right thing, OP. Get her belongings out. Get her out. Go build a good life you can be proud of.
Updateme!
Good on ya. Just remember that other people’s mental illness are not your responsibility to solve.
Block them. Also hope you took photographs of the mess. Always keep receipts