AITAH Update: Wife is Unhinged

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/jsCyUjoqSz

A mutual friend of ours texted me asking why I was invited to the kickback over the weekend. She wanted to talk to my girlfriend about getting a tattoo from her. I explained that I am distancing myself from them for being disrespected. We got into a whole conversation about what happened. She was either checking up on me or getting the hot tea. This friend is known to gossip. She did share information on the reason for the marriage. She said they got married, because his wife was pregnant. She was shocked to see that his wife was heavily drinking at the party. The drunk wife babbled on about how she hated me for not going to wedding or even giving them a gift. That I really hurt my friends feelings. I informed her that I gifted them a pizza oven, because I felt awful. I truly would have liked to be his best man. This friend told me that his wife said the pizza oven was from her ex that wanted her back. She was bragging about having two men fighting over her like she is so kind of prize. I’m so grateful that my girlfriend and I are dropping those two like a hot potato.