I think it really goes to show how much of an abusive and fucked up person when all 3 of your children of various ages want nothing to do with you. And of course he doesn’t care or think about that because why would he? But imagine you heard someone in your life had all of their children completely cut their dad off. I’d think that’s pretty damning personally. But no doubt he’s spun it in his head we’ve been poisoned by someone else or we’re just misunderstanding
The one single time I’ve been contacted by him in the like 6 years of NC, he did not remotely apologise, just said to “talk to him when I’m ready”. Like, lmao?
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Same, all my siblings are also NC with our NF. He’s probably still spinning it as “his ex wife alienated his children from him”.
All 3 of my siblings have cut contact, as well as aunts, uncles, and cousins on both sides of the family. My nMom still “has no idea why”.