I’m not sure if tbis is the proper place to post this but, as the title says I (20f) turn 21 in two months and I still have to ask my parents permission before buying most clothing items (besides tshirts, sweaters, jeans, etc). We’re going on a trip soon and I decided it might be a good idea to get jorts/capris since it’s a hotter climate and I had to send her links so she can “approve”. Mind you everything either reached the knee or was directly above it. She said it was too short which ultimately means I can’t buy anything.
It’s absolutely ridiculous and I feel like a small child. I’m a full grown woman. And if anyone asks why not “just buy it” the times I have done that I’ve been beat, sometimes senseless, so ultimately it’s not really worth it. I already have a plan to move out after college but it’s just ridiculous that I have to put up with this as an adult.
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I hope that you have an escape plan in mind and are actively working towards it. No one should be under control of physically abusive parents.