I’ve been in this relationship for 5 years we met online, and in the beginning, he was incredibly sweet. He gave me so much attention, always made time for me, and showed he cared in every little way. But lately, things have changed. Now, he’s often distant.
His messages feel lazy, sometimes even like he’s ghosting me. He says he’s sleeping, and I understand-he works from 5 AM to 1 PM, and I always let him rest. But in the evenings, he barely talks.
He sends some quick messages, then goes out with his friends, and when he gets home, he’s with his family. He only texts when he gets a chance and that chance is becoming rare. Now he doesn’t even make up if we fight always sleep it off thinking I’ll be okay in the morning Becoz it’s always have been illogical fights but now today I was upset he was busy all day we had a lil fight over it is I said I don’t wanna talk he is like k and then no msg.
From the start, he’s been loyal, and l’ve always trusted him, also lemme include he was very persistent n happy about getting engaged. But now… I don’t know. Is there someone else? Is he getting bored of me? Or is he just genuinely too busy? Whatever the reason, I feel like if I matter to him, he should be making time-just like he used to. I miss the older version of him
**TL;DR am I over reacting way too much or should I be worried