So pretty regularly on weekends, me and my gf go to the club to dance and just unwind from the week, oftentimes she has men approach her and they’ll dance together hands free (which I have no problem with) but this last weekend she had a man grabbing her waist and dancing very intimately. I pulled her aside and told her it made me uncomfortable and if he puts his hands there again could she remove them. She stated that he was gay and she would remove them, however later in the night as I as coming back from getting drinks at the bar I came back to him having his hands on her waist again. I asked her to remove them and she just stormed off and demanded we leave. I’m left wondering if I’m just being insecure or if this is disrespectful on her behalf. We’ve talked and she sees nothing wrong with it especially since he’s “gay.”
TLDR: I’m not comfortable with other men’s hands on my gfs waist while we’re dancing.