I’ve been ghosted by a lot of different girls over the past few months, and I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong. I’m not talking about anything sexual. I’m a pretty regular guy. I’m handsome, I work, I have good hygiene, a car, and a house.
All I really do is talk to them, try to get to know them, ask them out, and show that I’m genuine. I’m looking to create a real bond with one girl. I have no interest in being a player or anything like that.
It’s odd because every time I talk to a girl, they don’t seem to know what they want. We match on dating apps, and then they put in half-hearted effort to get to know each other. If you’re not actually interested in dating, or in me, why make a profile? Why match with me? Why give me your number? I just don’t get it.
I’m starting to think it’s me. Maybe I show that I care too much? But being nonchalant is tough, because then it seems like I’m not interested, and they move on to someone else. I’m really confused about what I’m doing wrong.
TL;DR – How to show interest correctly to woman.
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If you’re just going with dating apps, it could be your profile is attracting the wrong kind of person (not looking for committment etc). Maybe have a friend who is a girl take a look at it and give you feedback?
Another way of meeting people is through Meetup and other kinds of activities, and that can sometimes be more successful, or at least give you opportunities to practice good interactions outside of a dating context.
It’s hard out there. Don’t feel like it’s 100% your problem. It’s a tough time to being dating.
Dating apps are trash. Honestly maybe one in 20 dates have a chance. What apps you are using matters also