i am M25 and I love my dad he is truly a amazing person he was my idol for so long no matter how much the world beats him down he would stay kind. even when i was little he would never hit me, spank me sure but only when i acted out. he was Strick so i learned from a young age to say please and thank you. we was always poor but when i was having a hard day he would sneak me some snacks. when i was a baby he would work at sonic and would always come home with a hashbrow for me. ….in 2019 my life changed he was the youngest of 13 so some of his siblings started to die he was really sad and i understand why he started to drink again but when he was drunk he would be mean he would say hurtful things and try to fight me it was not really him i know but still i distanced myself. me and my mom has told him for years to stop drinking but he would lie and say he was not. he is now in the hospital his skin yellow and liver not to good he is still lying about the drinking…even so i cant cry i only now feel sad about all this while typing this out. i am not seeking advise i just wanted to get this out of my head. thank you for reading love you all stay safe.
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