My boyfriend (M27) had told me (F24) about a situation before we had met where an ex he was dating and his old friend and his friends old girlfriend were all drinking one night. My boyfriend’s ex and his friends girlfriend started to make out. I draw blanks if the boyfriend did anything. Long story short his ex girlfriend filed a restraining order against my boyfriend’s old friend and his girlfriend. His old friend just reached out and my boyfriend wants to meet with him for closure because misses the friendship. Now I don’t know if I believe my boyfriend’s ex because she was “crazy” he said. But as someone who has been through assault or harassment multiple times. I don’t want to be around this new friend at all. But even when I said I wanted to go with him to make sure he’s safe because he said they would resolve it or fight. He said he doesn’t want me to go and this is something he has to do alone. Made me have anxiety over the whole situation. He told me he would bring him around me “right now” and that I’m making a bigger deal out of it than it than it is. Am I?
TD;LR: Am I crazy for not wanting him to be friends with someone who’s girlfriend and him had a restraining order against them?