my guy best friend m19 & i f20 confessed our feelings for each other this past summer (we’ve liked each other for 5+ years) & hooked up many times. we go to the same college now, & i don’t see him too much but when i do it usually ends with him sleeping with me/staying the night.
i like him a lot, & i know he does too based off what he tells me. however, sometimes he won’t text me for a day or so. however, he does ask to take me to dinner or hangout once a week or so. i also saw him at a frat party with like 5 different girls with his arm around them. i get we’re not officially dating, so i didn’t make a fuss about it, but it did hurt, especially since he’s told me things like “no one compare to you, & you’re the most beautiful girl i’ve ever seen,” many MANY times.
i’m unsure of what to do from here because i can’t tell if he’s leading me on? or if he’s purely into me but just not super serious? or if he just wants the “college experience?” just throwing this out here because i’m confused on how to handle this.
TL;DR he hangs out with me/stays the night but also goes MIA
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What do you want out of college and this relationship? Just a FWB and maybe some fun with multiple people at college or do you want this guy to be your BF?