So for context I (18F) have been texting this guy(19M) for a little while. I leave in about 30 days for college out of state. Now to me this isn’t a big deal at all… however my mom is convinced that it’s this crazy plan I’m making to crush this dude? we went out on our first date the other day and it was amazing! I had so so much fun and I think he did too? However my mom keeps saying how I’m going to ruin this guys life and how I’m leading him on. I’m not at all planning on ending things with him and honestly I would want to do long distances with him if he was down. So do you guys think I’m in the wrong for hanging out with this guy even though I know I’m leaving so soon?
TL;DR -Am I in the wrong for talking to a guy even tho I’m moving soon?
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A tale as old as time! I don’t think it’s wrong as long as he knows you’re leaving soon. A lot of people go to college in relationships. Some last, some don’t. There’s no way to tell. I say give it a shot if you both want to!