Why do I feel like a fart is “forming” every time my guy puts his finger in my butt? I always get so self conscious. Is there a way to reduce this feeling?
Why do I feel like a fart is “forming” every time my guy puts his finger in my butt? I always get so self conscious. Is there a way to reduce this feeling?
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I think it’s just a full feeling that you would need to get used to.
It’s normal!
Heyo. The following is conjecture based on a lot of experience.
So, your body (well, your mind on behalf of your body) interprets stuff based on whats kinda adjacent to it, and familiar in some way. You have plenty of experience farting, but not much having stuff in your butt. Your guts will just be a bit sensitive, and will be giving you the sensory feedback which your brain is telling you is trapped air because that makes more sense than being an imminent bathroom visit.
If you sorta close your eyes, and relax as much as you can, and think about how whats happening is sexy and that there is no air in there, just your partner, you can kinda jump your brain off that track of thinking.
Try practicing on your own, using different lubes and/or spit (I find spit (or like drool) helps for sensitive insides because its umm.. like.. homogeneous to your insides?) But most of all work on whats going on in your mind.
Remember also that if you try a bunch of stuff and its just not working, anal might just not be for you and thats okay.
You’re definitely not alone in feeling that way! It can be a bit awkward, but communication with your partner can help ease your worries.
Sensitivity is normal. It’s your body letting you know something new’s happening down there. Kinda like when you first get a tampon in, it takes some getting used to. So don’t stress if it feels full or weird at first with anal play. Just breathe, relax, and focus on the good feelings too… like how nice it is to have your guy’s fingers inside you