Am I (f/21) making a big deal of what my bf (m/21) did?

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So basically I’ve been with my partner for three years now and we’ve gone through a lot together. To make it simple the issue is that he owns two cars but one has expired tags and he’s been leaving it on the street for acouple days now, because of that the battery died and he kept ignoring the fact that he had to move it. I kept telling him everyday for a week and a half until tonight that we came to the spot and the car was gone. Now obviously it got towed but to me I’m so over the fact that I told him multiple times and he still gets so upset when his car gets towed. And because of that now he’s gonna have to pay to get it out which means that he’ll have less money to move in w me (we’d get a new apartment together). Keep in mind this is his 4th out of 5 cars hes had in the time I’ve known him. He also lost the other ones due to crashing them (complete accidents) or one that he just abandoned at the tow yard. Idk can someone help cuz I just think it’s a big red flag dealing with someone who doesn’t listen to you for their own ego or idk just laziness. Also hes not a bad guy hes a great partner in the sense that he treats me well but when it came to talking about this he blocked me out since he didn’t want to hear what I had to say. Any opinions help.

TL;DR – my partner keeps making dumb decisions but I can’t decide if they are deal breakers or something that the person can fix.

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  1. jfkwithnojf Avatar

    I am confused on the thought process that makes getting an apartment together seem like a good idea 😅 (other than bad economy)