I’m a guy, 21 yo. I have always been attracted to men sexually, based on the pornographic videos I used to watch. But I have never felt emotionally attracted to one. On the other hand, I am emotionally attracted to women, but not sexually. This is what I have deduced while being single.
When I dated a women, I realized I wasn’t sexually or emotionally attracted to her. I also dated a man, but turns out I also wasn’t sexually or emotionally attracted to him. Does this mean I am asexual or should I date/see more people to conclude?
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Sounds like you might be exploring your identity. Keep dating and learning about yourself.
You’re not broken, you might just be discovering you’re asexual and that’s a powerful truth, not a flaw. Don’t chase sparks that never come, listen to the silence, it might be telling you who you really are.