I became close again with one of my old middle school best friend last year in July. It was yearssssss since me and her spoke. We became extremely close again. We’re both 30F. Texted everyday … but something started becoming off… the father of her child is not in her daughter life like at ALL, she got a random text message from and started wondering how he even got her number because it was impossible. Now let me be honest, I personally know her child father and when me and her first saw each other in person I was completely honest and told her that her fathers child and I use to speak and just use to ask me for pictures of her daughter due to me having her as a friend on social media. I felt like if me and her were going to be friends again it’s just something I wouldn’t be able to shove under the rug and I told her. She said she respected me for that and loved the honesty. After finding out what went on with them and how he doesn’t play his role. I blocked him everything out of respect for her and her child so he doesn’t know anything about them. We went on with having an amazing friendship after she got a message from her child’s father 2 weeks ago. She questioned me and said it was weird and impossible that he got her number. I told her I hope she doesn’t think I gave her she replied and said “ no I would never think you would do me like that” and went on. Now after this the energy was weird for me because if you THINK I would do something like that maybe our friendship is not as strong as I thought it was. She became friends again with an old best friend of hers 2 months ago and I heard nothing but bad things about her. You’re grown, your life or whatever with whatever relationship you pursue not my problem. But I found out it odd that she was sitting here telling me she gets weird energy from her etc etc … to then I realized she hid me from her story on IG but forgot that her IG stories goes to her Facebook and I saw she was the girl. Why did she feel the need to hide me from seeing that ? It makes me overthink because are you doing the same thing to me ? Talking about me to this girl ? Just not wanting me to see that you’re with her because you know what you are doing is wrong??? Like am over exaggerating??