Hello, I F20 am dating F22, me and my girlfriend have been dating for around 2 years, recently I wasn’t able to play/hang out with my girlfriend for the past week due to a bunch of exams, tests and group projects but now that i’m done with all of the things i was working on, i had asked if she would like to hang out. But every-time i ask her she refuses or says she’s busy, but when i check if she’s online or posts anything she’s always hanging out with this one girl. I have no problems with her since she’s dating this guy but every-time i ask to join my girlfriend says maybe next time, or won’t reply. She will play this with this girl for over 7 hours while i wait for her to respond. I really love her and don’t wanna break up but I feel as if i did something wrong that makes her not want to text me. Also i’ve tried to communicate to her about how i feel but she will say im overreacting or that we will play another time. When i look at her accounts to see if she’s online or wanted to hang out i realized she had taken me out of her bios and everything. I don’t know what to do does anyone have advice?
Am i overreacting or is this not normal?
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y’all need a heart to heart
best thing i can suggest is to not contact her unless she contacts you first
She may be being immature and avoiding you because you were not available for her. The difference is your reason was valid…
Or maybe it’s something else, but that my take.
not normal, y’all should talk, if she’s not willing to talk with you, you could break up, or remain confused and unhappy.
This technically is more normal than you think. But is not really diagnose-able by random people online. None of us know why she is avoiding you. So best to just rip the bandaid off and confront her more straight forward.
You’re not overreacting, I’d feel the same way. Either comfort her in person, or accept you’re being ghosted.
Sounds like y’all have broken up already, she just hasn’t told you yet