I met this guy 2 months ago and everything was going great — we’re compatible, sex life is good, and he shows he cares. Once he asked if we should watch porn together, I said maybe but didn’t think much of it.
Recently I mentioned watching porn while he was at work, and later he asked me more about it. Yesterday we had sex and today he brought up porn again, asking if I knew about the Lustery channel (where couples upload real videos). I didn’t know it, but when I checked it out I suddenly felt disgusted. I don’t know why, but I felt like I lost intimacy with him, didn’t want to touch him, and started comparing myself to those women.
I told him I feel really uncomfortable talking about porn, but he said it’s normal for him and not a big deal. Now I feel like our values don’t match, and maybe the relationship can’t work because this feels too much for me.
tl;dr: New boyfriend (2 months) asked if I know Lustery channel, and now I feel disgusted, lost intimacy, and don’t want to touch him. Am I overreacting?