Hello again, I’m coming here with another issue.
A new girl recently started hanging out with my group of friends, and I simply do not like her, in general, she acts like a mean girl, and is a brat, idk how the others deal with her.
Recently tho, she’s started to talk with me a lot when we all hangout, and also started texting me, I try to blow her off, with short and uninterested responses, but she keeps insisting.
My friends started to ask me about her, if I liked her, saying I should ask her out on a date, and that sounds like a nightmare; after refusing every time, they’ve started asking me why I don’t wanna go out with her, and idk how to tell them.
Besides her personality, I am also not physically attracted to her; I’ll describe her, with details, just to paint the scenario:
She’s about 1,70cms, brunette, big chest and butt (they seem like implants, but the chest if for sure fake), heavy makeup, big acrylic nails, and wears leopard leggings and a top; the typical “Brazilian woman”, as she is Brazilian lol.
She is also “super Christian”(I usually don’t have problems with religious ppl, as most of my friends are Christians) always talking about Jesus and god, anti vax, believes a lot of conspiracy theories, and is not interested in any discussion, as she always goes back to “god made it”; and she’s a hypocrite, she likes to wear reviling clothes and go to bars, listens to Brazilian Funk and twerks(I’m not against anyone who’s into that, I am not, and I dislike the hypocrisy)
And I’ll be honest, I don’t find most of those aspects attractive, I don’t care about the height or hair colour, but I am not into big chests or butts (I prefer natural, or even big, if they’re natural) I don’t like heavy makeup or big nails, and I generally HATE any leopard print clothing; and he’s voice? It’s like nails in a blackboard, she has the rich girl accent, yk?
The religion is also a big aspect, I’ve dated religious ppl and had no problem, they accepted the fact that I am not, but this girl doesn’t get it, always inviting ppl to her church, and can’t take no as an answer, and apparently doesn’t understand how someone doesn’t believe in god, and doesn’t want to spend every Sunday morning in a church, instead of sleeping or doing anything else.
I don’t wanna seem like a duh bag, so how do I explain to them I am not attached to a “attractive girl”?
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Backup of the post’s body: Hello again, I’m coming here with another issue.
A new girl recently started hanging out with my group of friends, and I simply do not like her, in general, she acts like a mean girl, and is a brat, idk how the others deal with her.
Recently tho, she’s started to talk with me a lot when we all hangout, and also started texting me, I try to blow her off, with short and uninterested responses, but she keeps insisting.
My friends started to ask me about her, if I liked her, saying I should ask her out on a date, and that sounds like a nightmare; after refusing every time, they’ve started asking me why I don’t wanna go out with her, and idk how to tell them.
Besides her personality, I am also not physically attracted to her; I’ll describe her, with details, just to paint the scenario:
She’s about 1,70cms, brunette, big chest and butt (they seem like implants, but the chest if for sure fake), heavy makeup, big acrylic nails, and wears leopard leggings and a top; the typical “Brazilian woman”, as she is Brazilian lol.
She is also “super Christian”(I usually don’t have problems with religious ppl, as most of my friends are Christians) always talking about Jesus and god, anti vax, believes a lot of conspiracy theories, and is not interested in any discussion, as she always goes back to “god made it”; and she’s a hypocrite, she likes to wear reviling clothes and go to bars, listens to Brazilian Funk and twerks(I’m not against anyone who’s into that, I am not, and I dislike the hypocrisy)
And I’ll be honest, I don’t find most of those aspects attractive, I don’t care about the height or hair colour, but I am not into big chests or butts (I prefer natural, or even big, if they’re natural) I don’t like heavy makeup or big nails, and I generally HATE any leopard print clothing; and he’s voice? It’s like nails in a blackboard, she has the rich girl accent, yk?
The religion is also a big aspect, I’ve dated religious ppl and had no problem, they accepted the fact that I am not, but this girl doesn’t get it, always inviting ppl to her church, and can’t take no as an answer, and apparently doesn’t understand how someone doesn’t believe in god, and doesn’t want to spend every Sunday morning in a church, instead of sleeping or doing anything else.
I don’t wanna seem like a duh bag, so how do I explain to them I am not attached to a “attractive girl”?
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