Am I the only one left in their 30’s with a low body count?!?

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I confess! I have a low body count 🫣 I am in my late 30’s and only been with two people. I do want to explore more…. but seems impossible to find others with “lower numbers”…. It is a turn off to me when someone has been with tons of people!

In my defense, I was married (and faithful) then divorced… took almost three years to focus on myself before dating again… I was in another long term (faithful) relationship. So only two! 🙃 I am also generally a demisexual (typically I don’t feel sexually attracted to someone until we have developed a close emotional bond). But… that’s not always the case.

Anyways… do ‘low body count’ men still exist in the world?!? Or is that not a thing and maybe I’ll just never sleep with another person ever again?!? 😅🤔🤗

Comments

  1. getyourfkinhedgecut Avatar

    I’m a late 30s male and my body count is 4. Three of these relationships and the other was a couple of encounters with the same girl on a lads holiday.

    There’s plenty of us about! Problem is, like me – body count is low as I’ve no desire to go out and experiment. Those that do will often have a higher body count.

    I was put off one night stands at an early age due to a friends experience

  2. sentinel692340 Avatar

    Yeah my body count is just 2 and I am 30 so yeah

  3. hawkeye18 Avatar

    I’m 41 and have the same as you. I’m also a nerd, and have been married essentially all of my adult life.

  4. DadOnTheInternet Avatar

    Yes. Now get out there and pump those numbers up 

  5. Parking_Candidate_4 Avatar

    33 year old women and my husband and I have only been with each other since we got together at 18. Thinking about sex with other people makes me feel anxious. Like I can’t fathom telling a guy casually to slap me in the face and spit in my mouth.

  6. ParalegalGuy Avatar

    I’m 41 with a low body count.

  7. juliaskoks Avatar

    Nope I have 1

  8. 1AccountAwayThrow Avatar

    I’m at zero so 🤷‍♀️

  9. boardgamejoe Avatar

    I’m 47, body count is 1, my wife of 20 years