First time on here, and im not really sure where to post this, so im sorry if this isn’t the right one, I’m sorry if anything is spelled wrong or doesn’t make sense. What i want to know is, is it weird for my husbands high school ex to have named her daughter the same name as our wedding venue? For context, I 26F met my 28M husband in high school (we can call him D) He was a grade above me and so was this ex. They were friends for a few years before they dated and they only dated for a week a while before we met. It wasn’t a serious relationship and at the time I also had friends who were ex’s which is why I had no problem with this. We can call her pos, she is currently 27F. Throughout our relationship it felt like she thought that my boyfriend was still hers even tho she said multiple times that she wasn’t interested. She was also a terrible person and friend at the time to D. He had many, many friends so I really didn’t think anything of her. I remember in high school being very nonchalant on whoever I dated at the time having friends and going out, as long as I got a little update on what he was doing, I didn’t really care otherwise. But pos thought she could involve herself into everything in our relationship. Dates, fights, literal hugging (she would get in between or say “where my hug at). After a time I started to think she’s in love with him, okay. A year later it’s D and pos’s senior year and this is bad move on my part, but I was talking bad about her to a close friend and somehow she over heard and told my husband. My husband didn’t care, but she sure did. I said what I said and I’d say it again, the only thing I regret is her hearing it. She told me she was angry about that and gave my husband an ultimatum “me or her”. My husband didn’t have two thoughts about it and chose me then texted her saying something along the lines of “you were a terrible friend, and to tell me to choose one of you is disgusting, I’m choosing my girlfriend bc she actually cares about how I feel”. So fast forwarding to 2021 we are engaged, and the best man for D (is still in her circle) is telling me that pos is trying to reach out and tell him she misses him through the best man. The best man tells me and my fiancé that she’s still ridiculously obsessed with him. Best man set her straight by telling her that D doesn’t care about her and she needs to move on. This happened 3 more times after that, between 2021 and 2024. Mind you, they haven’t spoken since 2016. Best man tried his best to continue putting up boundaries. Come to find out this whole time she’s been engaged with kids (apparently miserable) she’s been blocked since everything happened senior year. In 2023 D and I got married, in a different state, (this is important) at a venue called The Daisy wedding venue. She also had a bachelorette party in the same city we got married in, which might be a reach. Some friends and family think I’m reaching but I genuinely can’t explain how creepy she was and is being, i feel like it’s so weird of you name your second daughter the same as the wedding venue where your ex got married, but maybe I’m just looking too deep into it. I have no idea what to do anymore, it’s gotten to the point where I don’t want to post on social media, I don’t want to go out, it makes me sick to my stomach that this literal piece of sh!t is constantly thinking about my husband. But anywho what do yall think?
TL;DR: Is it odd for my husbands ex, who he hasn’t spoke to in 9 years yet still regularly asks about him, to name her daughter the same name as our wedding venue?
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You’re looking too deep into it. Daisy is a somewhat common name for a girl.
Do you know how many people are named “Daisy?!” If your wedding venue was named Pzoa8!fgx, and that was what she chose to name her daughter, then you probably should take out a restraining order against her. You are letting this person drive you crazy. You have to talk to somebody, please — this isn’t reasonable.
Daisy is a pretty name for a girl.
Have you considered therapy? It’s pretty clear your obsession with this high school drama is significantly impacting your life.
You’re probably not reading too deep into this but you ARE too deep. Why do you care about what she’s doing or saying? As long as she’s not stalking or harassing, just let her stay miserable while you and your husband thrive. Stop wasting your thoughts on her.
They haven’t talked in 9 years and all she has done during that time is that she tried to reach your husband a couple of times through the best man.
And because of this you don’t want to go out or post to social media and it makes you sick to think that she’s thinking about your husband? You are overreacting.
The name is a reach and you need new hobbies. YOU are thinking about her constantly. Stop asking what she’s doing. When people talk about her, say that you don’t want to hear it.
I knew the answer was yes from the title. Move on girly pop
If she did, what does it matter? Who cares?