Am I too slow?or was she petty?
Ik thus sounds like an 8th grade relationship but we’re both 22
We got into a big big fight(my fault)and she told me it’s my last chance.Tbh, I had already fucked up big time like a week ago.She told me to act normal the next day so when the next day came I went up and said hi to her but I didn’t sit next to her cause she didn’t remove her bag from the chair next to her(She always assumes thst im mad when i dont sit next to her but i completely forgot about it).
She blocked after that.During the next period I went and sat closer to her but she changed places i asked her how she was 2 times she didn’t reply the first time and the 2nd time she said she doesn’t want to talk i just said ok as you wish.A week after that I tried again reconnecting but she said I missed my last chance and I didn’t put in much effort into trying to talk to her.Do I have the emotional intelligence of a sloth or what?
Tl;Dr HUH
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I’m going with petty or playing mind games.
Instead of you acting normal though to her, for which she is shutting you down, this time, you let her know you’re ready to talk when she is. Then you go on about your normal life.
After 2-3 weeks if she doesn’t communicate or reach out, then remind her that the relationship is over. The reason for the official notice for end of relationship is so that when you start going out with other people , she won’t be able to say you’re cheating on her.
She’ll may learn that this childish silent treatment/could shoulder doesn’t work on you / in general or she’ll keep doing it and wondering why people start getting tired of her actions.