Any advice for next steps

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Location: SC

I was in a DV situation. And ex showed up at my house after 7 months no contact with a gun. I saw him pull up and ran inside with my baby (biologically his, not on the BC, never met him, provided for him emotionally or financially, not a text about him, nothing. This man also has issues with child pornography. I want nothing from him. Never filed for child support, dont want any. I essentially just want to be left alone to raise my baby as a healthy human being. But anyway. He showed up at my house with a gun, after trying to run a friend off the road that morning and then sending me harassing texts. Me and the baby hid in a closet for 15 min. He was banging on the door and I thought we were both going to die. Police got there and I guess he turned the gun on himself. They took him to the hospital. He was never charged with anything other than vandalism for punching my car. That process is still ongoing. He should’ve been charged with a felony, they labeled it a misdemeanor. I turned in clear evidence of the child pornography, the harassing texts, video of him walking around my yard between my cars holding a pistol. No charges. I cant get the police to so anything. The investigator assigned to the case wont return any calls. And the victims advocate wont either now. What can I do? Me and my baby haven’t been home in 6 months because of all this and are trying to sell our house, and potentially leave the country, which I dont want to do. I have the order of protection for me, but not for my baby. They decided once he got in trouble they would go for visitation. I really need help and I just cant find any. I also have no access to the free legal service here because he used them before I could and it would be a conflict of interest. I just feel so screwed and I need some options legally. This is absolutely ridiculous and im so angry.