Like I understand the concept of finding people with similar interests and wanting to get to know them more, but in general it just feels like everyone is just following a script, asking certain questions out of “politeness” and not genuine interest.
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This depends on situation, I’ve found in my personal experience. I do not seek people out but I had the most luck in situations that are more freeing, like not in work but on a date or night club. Usually in the beginning it’s a bit dry if you let it, like some people are content with things being polite and boring. It’s a curtesy, like you don’t want to overshare and be scary without having known someone. Different people, different strokes tho. Don’t depend on anyone to carry the conversation, take interest in the conversation and people might just follow imo.