At what age are you no longer considered “young”?

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At what age are you no longer considered “young”?

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  1. Realistic-Coffee8171 Avatar

    Late 20’s i’d say

  2. ThreeArchLarch Avatar

    People stopped saying “you’re still just a baby” when I turned thirty on the dot.

  3. DrNomblecronch Avatar

    According to most 6 year olds, 12 and above.

  4. Tough_Muffin_6891 Avatar

    I venture to say 40.

  5. Watchkeys Avatar

    Who by? My grandad referred to the 70 year olds he played bowls with as ‘young lads’, because they’d been a couple of years below him in school.

  6. Behave_myself Avatar

    Young is 0-29, middle is 30-59, old is 60 onwards. At least that’s my opinion being a 35yo.

  7. ThiagoPeracini Avatar

    26, you are already mature enough to start finding children and teenagers annoying and avoid them.

  8. Eiffel-Tower777 Avatar

    40 is middle aged if you live to 80.

  9. GeekOldMan Avatar

    The age goes up as mine goes up.
    I see early 30s as young

  10. awitadealoe Avatar

    Prolly like 35,20’s is still young

  11. AppropriateTough6168 Avatar

    I’d say like 35. And I don’t mean once you’re older than that I think you’re old, I just wouldn’t consider you super young.

  12. ParkingAngle4758 Avatar

    Honestly I’ve started getting to the point that the number keeps going up.

  13. More_Flat_Tigers Avatar

    Young is relative.

  14. OkNewt957 Avatar

    these answers are crazy. I would go as high as 50s and 60s, people think that by 40 you’re half in the grave when these days we’re living way longer in way higher numbers than we were ever meant to. 40 is halfway there. HALF.

  15. wasfar1 Avatar

    28-30. It’s the craziest transition
    Even in your own head you start feeling old, body and metabolism changes significantly

  16. Realistic-Dig2860 Avatar

    I got a job when I was 10

  17. cozywhimm Avatar

    In my household, once you are above 18, you are no longer young and that might be the case in some places too

  18. More_Mousse_Antlers Avatar

    When you have to stop and think about your age – wait, I’m XX old?!!?

  19. ThisisTophat Avatar
    1. I’ve got plenty of time.
  20. KathyWithAK Avatar

    Depends who you ask. I’m still called young by people ten years older than I am and I’ve been around since Nixon was President.

  21. theHowlader Avatar

    I don’t feel old mentally. Physically yes. I love anime and this kid was wearing a Naruto T-shirt. I complimented the T-shirt and he wanted my adult opinion on certain anime tropes. That’s the first time I felt “old” even though everyone else starts losing their minds when they hit 30. I’m 32.

  22. Conscious-Sink9120 Avatar

    Depends on how well you take care of yourself in my opinion. Some 30 year olds have the body and mindset of a 50 year old.

  23. Vinny_Lam Avatar

    Some sources say 34 is the last young age. 35 is the age where you begin to transition away from youth. That doesn’t mean you’re old yet. It just means you’re no longer super young. So yeah, I’m gonna go with 35.

  24. Iturrihotza Avatar

    I’d say 40 but it depends in which culture you’re living in. For a Spaniard is 40 but for a German it’s 30. It depends.

  25. flopoyamin84b Avatar

    15 is ok for me.

  26. whitneyx3 Avatar

    35 I would say, but it’s all relative anyway.

  27. NameEducational9805 Avatar

    I work in a nursing home, and in that context, everyone under 70 is young

  28. jfgjfgjfgjfg Avatar

    31, because the world’s median age is 30.9.

  29. atreides78723 Avatar

    It depends. When I went to college parties at 25, I was considered old. When I’d visit relatives in nursing homes at 45, I was considered young.

  30. CheFigata20 Avatar

    When pro athlete start to seem like kids

  31. pixtax Avatar

    You’ll always be considered young by anyone that has a decade or more on you.

  32. Bradrb66 Avatar

    If you ask a millennial then you’ll find it’s any age we are. lol

  33. TreyBorsa Avatar

    I remember feeling like I crossed the line when I turned 25.

  34. completelygeeked Avatar

    27 homie. It’s the law.

  35. Stay_Over_There Avatar

    My mom is 70. Any lady 55 or younger is a girl to her.

  36. SweetSexiestJesus Avatar

    When you consciously accept your age.

    My 80yr grandpa played golf most days and was sharp as a tack. He never accepted his age as fact.

    Even when the cancer got him, he laughed about until the end.

  37. Ace-Redditor Avatar

    Depends on what the “young” person is doing and on who’s saying they’re young or not.

    40 is generally considered young to die, but not young for having kids, for example. So it’s relative by situation

    And it’s relative by the age of the describer as well, because to a 5 year old, 30 is super old. To an 80 year old, that same 30 year old is very young

  38. addledwino Avatar

    Youth isn’t an age, it’s a mindset.

  39. organicginger36 Avatar

    My Grandma still refers to me as a teenager. I’m 35.

  40. Different-Thanks-431 Avatar

    Immediately i clocked 20, reality started setting in.

  41. No_Nectarine6942 Avatar

    When everything hurts.

  42. Powerful-Band-2030 Avatar

    Depends how old you are

  43. Fit-Let8175 Avatar

    It depends. At 5, you’re too old to be breastfed, but at 50, you’re too young for senior citizen’s discounts.

  44. MrsTJK Avatar

    When you have a gastroenterologist, and Optometrist, a rheumatologist, and an orthopedic doctor in your phone contacts.

  45. retailguy_again Avatar

    I’m 60, and I no longer consider myself young. Damned if I know when that happened.

  46. KrazyNinjaFan Avatar

    29 is the last year of youth. 30+ is old to me. 60+ is ancient

  47. Secret-Weakness-8262 Avatar

    Whatever age I was twenty years ago, goddammit that’s what young is. 🙂

  48. DBFargie Avatar
    1. People don’t really take you seriously until around then. You’ve had enough experience to know better.
  49. Jollybosom Avatar

    When you lose your sense of humor for juvenile jokes that used to make you/the people around you laugh

  50. naeboseub Avatar

    30 like me. No longer young. No longer wanted

  51. BGally24 Avatar

    A few yrs ago I fell playing hockey and instead of my teammates laughing they asked if I was ok. Same type of minor fall as I take fairly regularly, no reason to ask if I am ok. So I guess around 50 my teammates consider me old. (I’m now 52)

  52. anonymous_subroutine Avatar

    I felt not young at 30, but when pop culture started to become dominated by gen Z a couple years ago is when I really, REALLY felt not young.

  53. blacklotusY Avatar

    Biologically, many researchers consider “young adulthood” to end around age 35. After that, certain aging markers start to show more noticeably.

  54. WePwnTheSky Avatar

    Everything was great before 36

  55. Pure_Mammoth_1233 Avatar

    When you believe you’re old. Don’t do it.

  56. iforgot69 Avatar

    Your not young when you old.

  57. SnowConePeople Avatar

    When you start acting like a selfish fool who only cares about money and refuses to leave their blighted kingdom (house).

  58. Marshmallowbutbetter Avatar

    Now the official definition of young (at least where i live?) is under 45. I’m 41. My colleagues consider me young because of the age gaps that occurred due to economic situation. Do I feel young? I don’t want to be younger than I am. I’ve got achievements I’m not willing to exchange for extra years of life. I also don’t see a decrease in my quality of life due to age. So idk. I’m just my age.

  59. MajesticBlackberry65 Avatar

    When you no longer look it

  60. cardinalburns Avatar

    In Simone De Beauvoir’s The Woman Destroyed, a character is described as a young woman of 50. Which I love.

  61. Life-Two9562 Avatar

    I say 35 too, and I’m 10 years past that. I will say that even at 45, I still feel like I need to look for an adult in some situations and realize I AM the adult now so I need to figure it out.

  62. carsont5 Avatar

    It depends on who’s doing the considering.

  63. SmokedStone Avatar

    probably 40-45. that’s about the halfway mark in most people’s lives. personally, i’d say 30, because that’s 1/3-1/2 of most people’s lives. You’re not young if you’re out of the first act anymore. But you’re not old until you hit the third act.

  64. larryjerry1 Avatar

    If you ask me, late 20s. 

    By that point, if you went to college you’re probably several years into a career and have some solid experience under your belt. You’ve been dealing adult responsibilities and likely been living apart from your family, probably on your own for several years. 

    Basically, by your late 20s you’re no longer entry level in life. 

  65. Nihilistic_River4 Avatar

    Everyone is ‘young’ when they are younger than you. But by the standards of society these days, I’d say around early to mid 30s is when you’re no longer considered young.

    Also depends on how you look. Some people in their 40s or even 50s look like they could be 10 years younger and is treated as such. Some people in their 30s look older, it all really depends.

    There’s that famous photo comparison right here in Reddit of Sean Connery with some other actor guy, both 34 at the time the photos were taken. James Bond looks like he’s 40 already, the other actor guy looks like he’s not even 20 yet. Both are going to be treated very differently, both will be considered ‘young’ differently by different people.

    Weirdly, it also depends on what people know about you. If within your circle, people know you’re married with kids, you are considered ‘older’. But if you’re in your 50s, single and no kids, you will be treated as though you are ‘younger’ even if you’re the oldest person in the room.

    It goes way beyond the visual, perception is what it’s all about. Sad but true.

  66. Pretty-Safety-8253 Avatar

    There’s no objectively correct answer. The answer will differ depending on the age of the person you ask. But a good rule of thumb in regards to this question is; don’t ask people below 20 their opinion. They think anyone above 25 is a dinosaur.

  67. indistrait Avatar

    “At 40 you’re an old young man. At 50 you’re a young old man.”

  68. schwindick Avatar

    When you are older than most Olympic athletes.

  69. NoEmergency7573 Avatar

    Depends on context. Are you too young to be a widow at 35? Yes. Are you too young to have a full-time job? No.

  70. aurora_ethereallight Avatar

    We are all old to some people and young to others 😉🥰 And maybe thats ok.

  71. ThreeDogee Avatar

    0-17: Kid
    18-34: Young adult
    35-64: Middle aged
    65+: Old

  72. I_LICK_PINK_TO_STINK Avatar

    I’m 40. I’ve learned that everyone is young and knows basically nothing. Some of us youngsters are just more gray and wrinkly than others.

  73. Murky-Variety4909 Avatar

    What is your definition of young?

  74. SmrtestIdiot Avatar

    If you are younger than me by just a day. Then I refer to you as a child. My right as an old fuck.

  75. ChaoticMaplesyrup Avatar

    Youth is a mindset. I’ve met 90 yo’s with a more youthful spirit than some 20 yo’s. I call myself old in relation to my friends in their 20’s, but I don’t feel old at all.

  76. Keypinitreel1 Avatar

    It’s health related, you can be an old 40 year old or a young 45 year old. Can you still run, jump, split, make love, and danc? If so… You’re young. I’m a young 49. I see young men in their 30 s broke down already. Take care of your mind and body fellas… Live to the fullest.

  77. smoothallday Avatar

    When I was 25, my answer was 50. Because that’s the year my parents turned 50. They seemed old. This year I will turn 50. I don’t view myself as old, but I don’t view myself as young either. Though I do consider myself young compared to my contemporaries, simply because I work out/eat healthy. And my genetics have left me with most of my hair, very little of it being grey.

  78. highparallel Avatar

    As a mid-30s person,

    0-25 young

    26-50 middle

    51+ old.

    Let’s be real, the older I get the more I realize how short life is, I’m not going to candy coat it.

  79. minimouse2105 Avatar

    Well I used to hear my grandma and grandpa say, “the kids are over” when their kids (60s), us grandkids (20s-40s), and their great grandkids (~11 and below) would come over for the holidays or to visit, so what age are you no longer considered young? Yes. That’s my answer, lol.

  80. dee_palmtree Avatar

    I don’t know why, but as a 29yr old turning 30 in september, I feel like past three years (27-29/30) this has been my 2nd puberty.
    So much is happening in my body and mind – it’s insane.

  81. SpreadEagle48 Avatar

    Legally 18, realistically 26ish

  82. Pr_fSm__th Avatar

    I still remember the time when earth had no moon and I sometimes have to show my ID

  83. Winter_Baby_4497 Avatar

    10 years from whatever age I am or will ever be

  84. NOT_NativeEN_Speaker Avatar

    100 (here in Japan 😉

  85. LivingGhost371 Avatar

    I think for me was the first time I threw out my back by sleeping wrong at age 48.

  86. mhoner Avatar

    I tell folks my mid 50’s is when I will allow myself to be considered old. Once my kids are out of high school.

  87. madhyaloka Avatar

    Your are no longer considered young at the age when youngsters shy away from you, and female young adults call you a pedophile when you’re hitting on them.
    In different cultures (times, countries) this age is different. It may be 25- or 45+.
    Purely social matter. So i would treat this as stereotypes. Be young as long as you feel young.

  88. The-Owl-that-hoots Avatar

    When you don’t understand the slang anymore

  89. pommygranates Avatar

    i’ll be young until i’m dead

  90. ReadinII Avatar

    10 years beyond your current age.

  91. mind_the_matt_18 Avatar

    It’s relative. I’m 35yo so to me under 30 is young. Under 25 are “kids”.

    I’m biased though because with 3 kids I have more in common with those in their 40s than those the same age as me. For reference, my oldest is in KG and I’m the youngest Dad in her classroom (22 students) by 2 years.

  92. marshmallowgiraffe Avatar

    I am 53 and honestly it really annoys me when someone calls me “young lady.” Like, my dude, are you serious? I don’t consider it a compliment.

  93. shadoboxxx Avatar

    I noticed younger women didn’t find me as irresistibly charming after 35, lol. Correlation is usually causation I think.

  94. PM_ME_YOUR_CUTE_HATS Avatar

    My cat died with I was 12 so12

  95. SynonymSpice Avatar

    I am 75 years old. I have to remind myself that I’m not “young” anymore.

  96. mearbearcate Avatar

    40+ becomes middle aged-old

  97. AdditionalAir4879 Avatar

    35 today. I’m a baby.

  98. GreatRun3125 Avatar

    Depends on who you ask! 😆 I’m 52 and if you ask an 80 year old, I’m a young man. If you ask a 20 year old, I’m old AF!

  99. pdubs1900 Avatar

    Never. You’re young to somebody.

  100. TrickyWalrus Avatar

    When I was about 31/32, I remember saying “as a young adult-“ to which my older brother (35ish) interrupted me and goes “no no no. You’re what? 32? You’re not a young anything. Grown ass man” and that has stuck with me these past few years

  101. axron12 Avatar

    The Hobbits had it right, 33

  102. InternalSociety8611 Avatar

    someone tell me i’m young, I crave the validation rn (almost 27)

  103. National_Put5037 Avatar

    0 to 35 Young age

    36 to 59 Middle age

    60 elderly age onwards

  104. Beetle_Borgin Avatar

    25 is the first feeling of  uh oh I can’t say I’m in my early twenties and the dread of the approaching 30s

    30 is realizing oh shit it’s not that bad, plus you can say you’re in your “early thirties” 

    I imagine 40s to be kinda similar 

    So 50 I would think is “old” , you’re half a century old and have some graying/white

    And old like “just old” not decrepit ancient mummy with green bones full of green dust 

    I think that’s 80s and up 

  105. Separate-Warning985 Avatar
    1. Blink 182 makes it clear
  106. Katarina_Ishii Avatar

    My dad thinks 50 year olds are young

  107. betrayal_Knew Avatar

    When people wouldn’t describe you as “only [age]” if you died 

  108. DeeFlor19 Avatar

    When you forget how old you are.

    The other day, I was talking to 3 of my coworkers about a case I have. All three of my coworkers are older than me. The youngest one is 10 yrs older than me, and the other two are in their 50’s-60’s. I told them that everyone on this case is old. All three look at me and ask me to clarify what old is and how old I am. I told them, with confidence, that I am 30 years old and they are all in their 80’s and nobody can hear each other, so they are all yelling. I began to think to myself and realize I really am not 30, I don’t even know how old I am. They asked me what year I was born in, and I replied 93, we all realize I’m 31, and a whole year of my life disappeared. That’s when I realized I’m actually no longer young, because I don’t know how old I am

  109. Netninja00010111 Avatar

    When I hit 44-45 I started noticing I wasn’t the young one walking around Walmart. One time I think I might have been the oldest in the store!!

    Now at 48 I know I am old and don’t care what anyone thinks.

  110. SmartPomegranate9111 Avatar

    Age is just a number baby!

  111. Jennyelf Avatar

    I’m sixty. In some ways I still feel young, but most people on hearing my age would consider me old. I heartily disagree with them. I come from two bloodlines that regularly live into their mid-90s. I have a ways to go yet before I’m old.

  112. LaloElBueno Avatar

    When your peers begin having kids on purpose.

  113. mary48154 Avatar

    My mother is 95, I’m 65 and she considers me young. My kids are in their mid 30s I consider them young. A 10 year old would consider everyone of else old.

  114. LiftsEatsSleeps Avatar

    It’s a matter of perspective. To an 80 year old, 40 is still young, to a 17 year old 40 is a senior citizen.

  115. Orchidlove456 Avatar

    According to my 23 year old coworker, 30 years is not young anymore.

    We’ll see how she feels in 7 years

  116. IAmABearOfficial Avatar

    Old is when you start getting significant health issues.

  117. FuryKosmatos Avatar
  118. sunnynihilist Avatar

    Many museums in Europe would charge full price once you reach age 27. So I guess young is under 27 years old

  119. Cruitire Avatar

    It depends on the perspective of the person making the call.

    To a 10 year old a 30 year old is old.

    To an 80 year old a 40 year old is still a kid.

  120. Flimsy-Attention-722 Avatar

    When you start thinking you’re old

  121. fulthrottlejazzhands Avatar

    As the adage goes, you’re as old as you feel (as long as you stay healthy).  I’m in my 40s and feel younger than I did in my mid 20s.  Less stress, better able to deal with life events, and much more laid back.