At what age did your beard fully come in?

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I can only grow a little on my mustache and chin, and I wonder if I’ll ever get beard growth on my cheeks. I recently read about a guy who didn’t fully grow his beard until his late 30s. I’m currently in my 20s.

Most of men in my family have beards. My father told me he barely had anything in his 20s, which is why he always shaved. It wasn’t until his 50s, during the pandemic, that he decided to grow it out and realized he could finally grow a full beard (he didn’t try for years).

Is there hope for me?

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  2. Haisha4sale Avatar

    Honestly for me it was like 35 years old 

  3. DMmeNiceTitties Avatar

    My 20s, but it wasn’t until my mid-to-late 20s that my beard and mustache finally connected.

  4. Soft_Brush_1082 Avatar

    39 here. Still hasn’t

  5. InuitOverIt Avatar

    36 and counting, can’t grow on my cheeks. at all. Makes like a U-shape where my goatee dips down to my neckbeard and comes up back by my ear. Can’t really do sideburns either. On the plus side, 0 back hair, and just the right amount of chest hair (according to my wife) – like a diamond shape in the middle. I can grow (and currently have) an epic mustache too.

  6. LYossarian13 Avatar

    When it disappears from top, it will appear on the bottom.

  7. BuddyBrownBear Avatar

    It was alarming to other students.

    I was often mistaken as school staff.

  8. TellMeThereIsAWay Avatar

    Mine has been the same since early 20’s.

  9. lurkey-mc-lurkerson Avatar

    40 . Still never had a full beard

  10. cluelessinlove753 Avatar

    I pretty much filled in my beard as I was able. Before 22 or 23, I could only grow a chin beard. After that, I had a full goatee and could have grown chops, but it didn’t connect/fill in at the corners of my mouth until I was 30. Coincidentally that was right after the birth of my first child.

    Go create life and the beard will come

  11. Happy_Brain2600 Avatar

    Grew a full beard @ 16 but it wasn’t anything like it is at 23. Now I got a beard barbers will compliment.

  12. NewAcctWhoDis Avatar

    full beard at 13.

  13. Vgcortes Avatar

    Still waiting, lol! Yeah, luckily, and I mean LUCKLIY, my small beard suits me because of my skin color and face shape. However, it’s not full and I don’t like it, so I often shave it out of spite. And maybe… Someday it will be full? Maybe not

  14. panthereal Avatar

    like 16. my high school teacher wanted me to shave again before their class at the end of the day

    as much as you may want one it’s always underrated to have the ability to easily stay clean shaven. the amount of time I have to spend shaving adds up to quite a lot, even considering the almost a decade I spent without shaving at all.

  15. jergens Avatar

    Still waiting at 51. lol

  16. DanteInferior Avatar

    I started growing a beard in high school. Maybe sixteen?

  17. lrbikeworks Avatar

    I’m 57 and mine is still getting thicker. Last time I tried was in 96 and it was okay on my lip and chin but patchy everywhere else. I tried again a couple years ago and I like it. I pretty much have a Keanu reeves level beard. I like what I have but would love a Chris Evan’s beard. Probably not in the cards for me.

    All this to say hes. There’s hope. It may take quite a long time but there’s hope.

  18. SDN_stilldoesnothing Avatar

    From the first time I shaved my peach fuzz at 15.

    From when my puberty started to ramp up in my early teens, my beard came in with no patches and no weak whiskers.

    I was growing beards and goatees in a week.

  19. Lopsided-Head4170 Avatar
    1. You just have lower test that other men that’s all. My brother can’t even grow a beard and he 40
  20. Hopeful-Savings-9572 Avatar

    15 or 16 somewhere around there

  21. cheapdiscoball Avatar

    26/27 I finally grew some hair in the last patch

  22. redcurrantevents Avatar

    47, doesn’t really fill in.

  23. freshair_junkie Avatar

    I’m almost 60 and it never has. Still have smooth areas.

  24. Turbo112005 Avatar

    Late 20s early 30s. Tho I couldn’t have one for work until a few years ago.

  25. blue-flight Avatar

    Never struggled in that department. At 19 I grew a full beard.

  26. EternalLifeguard Avatar

    Since the 7th grade, though my parents wouldn’t let me keep it – had to keep shaving daily until my first year of university. Been a bearded liberal ever since.

  27. johnsmerkboy Avatar

    I was shaving my mustache at 10, full face at 12. Then I stopped around 15 and just began trimming. At this point it now covers almost my full face if I don’t shave. Of course my hair line is receding., but the rest of my body is nothing but hair lol.

  28. MrParticular79 Avatar

    I’m 45 and I’m still waiting…

  29. Snowbirdy Avatar

    Around 22 or 23. Women always complained about my stubble even when I shaved earlier that day. Other than one summer experiment with a goatee-mo, I didn’t really try grow one until 40s. And people loved it when I did! Got compliments from men and women all the time.

    Now I have cancer treatment that has permanently made me lose facial hair (thank god only there).

    So I may be relegated to a ‘stache only soon…

  30. ddeads Avatar

    I’m 41 and it hasn’t come in fully yet. Maybe someday.

  31. erichie Avatar

    I was able to grow sideburns, goatee, and mustache by the time I was 17, but I couldn’t grow a full beard until 26.

  32. Oldgatorwrestler Avatar

    I’m 57 and it hasn’t come in yet.

  33. Idrinkbeereverywhere Avatar

    I still basically have no body hair

  34. mezolithico Avatar

    Took me til my mid 20s to be able to grow a full beard

  35. WestBrink Avatar

    I had a very full neck beard by 15. Gradually filled in a bit on the mustache and cheeks until I had to shave it for a job at 22. From 22-33, I shaved every day, so no clue. When I could finally have a beard again at 33, it grew in in glorious profusion everywhere

  36. Theperfectool Avatar

    32ish. I was made to shave before I had anything but peach fuzz while serving so that might have had some impact.

  37. SnooMarzipans4304 Avatar

    It wasn’t until my mid 30’s that I had full beard coverage.

  38. screw-self-pity Avatar

    still just a small moustache, a chin, and some hair here and there… but I still have hope! (for the beard and for the wisdom teeth)

  39. u6crash Avatar

    Yeah, maybe late 30s? I was never terribly interested in growing one, so it didn’t matter much. The times I kind of tried it seemed rather thin and patchy. Even now (43) my beard type is not super bushy, but there is full coverage.

  40. xrelaht Avatar

    What do you mean “fully”? I’ve been able to grow a full beard since I was in HS, but it still gets thicker and covers more of my face every year.

  41. Fit_Victory6650 Avatar

    Hopefully any day. 43. 

  42. ledgabriel Avatar

    My grandparents from father’s side are from Lebanon, so, at around 4 yo, lol. Jokes apart, I started shaving at around 15. On my 20s, if I went 2 days without shaving, it’d be a problem.

    At 33 I embraced beard, now I keep a full beard. But, as I said, my Arabic side doesn’t give me the beautiful viking beard, it gives me the steel sponge. So I have to care and trim constantly. 3 days that I relax, I’m looking like Osama Bin Laden.

  43. an_edgy_lemon Avatar

    I had a nice beard by 16. It still gets thicker every year. Of course, I started balding by 18, and I have hair EVERYWHERE.

  44. icemanice Avatar

    Never… 43 and still can’t grow a proper beard

  45. murdock_RL Avatar

    I had a goatee all my 20s and the beard came fully at 30.

  46. silent_fungus Avatar

    40m and im still waiting lol.

  47. talipdx Avatar

    45 and it still hasnt fully come in

  48. GrumpyOlBastard Avatar

    I was like you, barely able to grow anything on my face. I grew it anyway and just owned it. Over the years it’s gradually filled in, although I cannot grow a sideburn to save my life. Meanwhile, as a teen, a friend could grow a serious beard at 16 yet remained a clean shaver his whole life.

    As a man with a ‘problem beard’, I’ve never understood those men who CAN grow a beard, but don’t. You do you, bro. It’s all cool

  49. Outrageous_Pitch3382 Avatar

    15-16….. I grow thick hair everywhere on my body…. Oh … except the top of my head..!!!!

  50. CoverWorking6832 Avatar

    Mine started coming in fully around 26 or so

  51. Forrtraverse Avatar

    Could grow one around 20. You either have the genetics or you don’t. If you can’t grow a full beard by 20 when your testosterone is a powerhouse, you’ll never be able to.

  52. Puzzleheaded-Dog1154 Avatar

    like 18 or 19. Feel bad for y’all who can’t grow one.

  53. Green-Dragon-14 Avatar

    My brother is 48 & he still can’t grow a beard. It takes weeks to get stubble.

  54. MahKa02 Avatar

    I started noticing it being fuller at 25. Mine isn’t one of those thick, dense beards that you can’t see through but I have a decent beard now at 32. In my early 20s, I could only grow a stache and chin hair but I’d say 25/26 is when it fully came in.

  55. FalcorDD Avatar

    25, full beard and mustache but without the fill in next to soul patch

    35 ear hair, ass hair, random back hairs

    42 hair under lip

    Currently 45 and have full head of hair and full beard

  56. jadelink88 Avatar

    I was the same till around 24-25.

  57. RetroBerner Avatar

    I’m 45 and it didn’t get as full as it is now until I was in my 30s, and it’s still patchy. Not like Joe Dirt style, but on my cheeks it never really filled out.

  58. mtcwby Avatar

    16 or 17. My sons about 15 for which I blame their Portuguese mother. The youngest had a full beard at 15 and looked about 25 much to his delight.

  59. opusrif Avatar

    One thing I didn’t learn until way too late is that the act of shaving actually stimulates the follicles. Trans men after receiving testosterone will start shaving even before their beard comes in to encourage the growth…

    Anyway if I were you I would bring this up with your doctor. It’s worth checking if there is a hormonal issue. That being said everyone is different. I remember being convinced I was going to be smooth chested when I turned 19. Then one morning I woke up with a hairy chest. Blew my mind.

  60. TheRtHonLaqueesha Avatar

    Yet to do so. Just fine by me. I hate beards and if I could grow one I would just shave it off anyway. Since I cannot grow one, that simplifies the problem and is one less thing to worry about.

  61. AssholeWHeartOfGold Avatar

    42 and waiting for that day!

  62. GrizzlyDust Avatar

    Maybe like 17-19. I was shaving a lot back then so it’s tough to say when exactly

  63. WrongHarbinger Avatar

    It still hasn’t lol

  64. ThatTemperature4424 Avatar

    I’m 32, starting to get bald but i can only grow a mustache. I’m getting more and more hair on the back of my neck though.

  65. EsseBear Avatar

    39 and still waiting. Patchy at best on the sides and one sideburn has a gap of an inch before it gets to my head hair

  66. nipple_salad_69 Avatar

    I’m 36, still hasn’t come, i look like Keanu Reeves with a “beard” when i try

  67. ihatemyjobandyoutoo Avatar

    Age 20 but mine’s still patchy, I’m 32 🥲

  68. Herr-Trigger86 Avatar

    38 currently… I have a decent beard now… still a little spotty but it’s not bad at all. It took me till 34 or so to get to this point. Probably as good as it will ever be. Don’t give up hope

  69. Velifax Avatar

    It’s juuusssst about compete, like 90%, at 40.

  70. Valde877 Avatar

    30 baby face

    31 outline forming, still super patchy

    32 beard fully connects, have to shave 2-3 days.

  71. DoubleDutch187 Avatar

    I started shaving in 8th grade. Probably could have grown a beard at 14 a really thick beard by 16.

  72. BarnacleFun1814 Avatar

    I am a hairy mf’er who comes from a long line of hairy mf’ers and I could grow a beard around 21/22 but my beard didn’t start to really grow super thick until I got closer to 30.

    Now in my 40’s my beard grows crazy fast and crazy thick it actually kinda sucks.

    My advice is don’t worry it’ll grow in time but by the time you get it you may not want it anymore

  73. InternationalChef424 Avatar

    37, and it still hasn’t

  74. drunkenben Avatar
    1. I’ll let you know when it does
  75. Like_Ottos_Jacket Avatar

    46, still waiting for the moustache and beard to connect.

  76. Technical-Hurry-3326 Avatar

    Probably around 18 or 19.

  77. slim1kid Avatar

    Ironically mines came in around 24-25 but at the same time I went bald on the top center of my head. So now I can grow a full beard and have it as thick as I want. And the hair on top of my head still doesn’t grow anymore. So I shave my head now and have fully embraced the bald look!!

  78. Perfect-Resort2778 Avatar

    When you start losing the hair that is on the top of your head.

  79. Trolldad_IRL Avatar

    About 26 or so. We went camping for a cheap vacation and I stopped shaving apart from trims and shaping, I’ve never shaved off except one time. Surprised me as well that it came in because my brother and father never were able to grow a decent beard. I’m close 60 now and it’s all white.

  80. brstra Avatar

    41 and still nothing nice

  81. PfedrikTheChawg Avatar
  82. alsheps Avatar

    I’m 46 and it’s still a bit patchy. It doesn’t help that parts of it are going grey too, just making it worse.

    Edit: although I could grow a (what’s the name for a goatee with the mustache? That.) since I was 16, it’s just the sides that have been patchy all my life. Ironically those are the parts that are going grey…

    Edit 2: honestly if you’re worried, just keep letting it grow, that’s what I did, and it started looking for full the more I grew it. I won’t lie, it’s not gonna look great for a while but it should fill out

  83. Puzzled_Pig Avatar

    I’m 41 and it still looks like I have mange

  84. evanthx Avatar

    Late thirties for me – until then it was really patchy and sparse.

  85. LevelOneForever Avatar

    I don’t grown a strong thick beard but it’s perfectly decent at short lengths (I only allow it to grow to 1cm but usually shorter than that). I was first able to grow it at 25 and it’s stayed largely the same since

  86. Horizontal_Axe_Wound Avatar

    Could grow a full beard at 23 but hair wasn’t as thick as it is now. That took until about 26.

  87. tioneel Avatar

    Mid to late 20s. Started sporting a full beard around 30.

  88. pharrison26 Avatar

    I’m 42 and still patches O’Hoolighan.

  89. whboer Avatar

    34 and its sideburns + goatee + Gomez moustache for me (or permanent stubble, which is the look I married).

  90. Frosty_Term9911 Avatar

    I had a full proper beard at around 20

  91. BendingDoor Avatar

    20? Maybe earlier but I usually shaved. I’m 25% Sasquatch.

  92. Key_Professional7027 Avatar

    I had a full but patchy beard at 14, thing was 100% by the time I was 18. Let me tell you what though, my back hair has grown into a full vest now at 36, so you know, good comes with bad sometimes my guy

  93. doiwinaprize Avatar

    About 20, its mostly genetics I think

  94. trnpkrt Avatar

    ~30, still better at 40.

  95. SlapfuckMcGee Avatar

    Mid 20s for everything to be full and connected.

    15 for my sideburns to look awesome
    5th grade for my mustache to be noticeable.

    My paternal uncle was almost 40 for his beard to fill in and my maternal uncle was mid 30s

  96. Woorloc Avatar

    By the time my beard could grow in fully it was already grey.

  97. Wide-Concept-2618 Avatar

    I think I was around 30 when I got a full beard, likely could have grown one before that but I had a kickass goatee that I grew at 26 or so that I preferred at the time.

    Still don’t like a beard but have the goatee and short around the jaw…Like a redneck John Wick thing.

  98. whataremyoptionz Avatar

    About 15, and I was full height at 12, needless to say I looked a lot older than I was for a long time.

  99. thewongtrain Avatar

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    You guys are growing beards?