Starting a conversation instead of calling me handsome. Even if you think that, there’s nothing I’m going to do about it unless you happen to live within about half an hour of me, so I’m not interested.
I have 2 female friends who DMed me a few months ago in Reddit posts. One said I gave her hope in how to win her boyfriend back and the other thought I made a thoughtful comment. Strange, but we have been keeping in contact. Both know I am married and not trying to get wirh them. So I guess if they seem authentic. Also, I look to see if they’re hawking their OF; if I see they have an OF in their profille, I don’t accept the invite.
Don’t feel like a bot. Overly flirtatious scam bots with suspicious links to “nudes” that will steal your personal info get sent to guys constantly. That and pig butchering scams that try too hard to get him to think you’re sincerely flirting to he’ll send you money.
Many guys are jaded to DMs, especially if it opens with calling him handsome
Pick something more specific that proves you’re human and paying attention
Probably nothing to be honest with you. Anytime a woman shows me a certain kind of attention I immediately assume it’s a setup or she wants something from me
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Like a girl who dms you and calls you handsome.
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Nothing. Nothing at all.
You fishin?
Uh, well, most men would think that’s a scammer texting them. (If it’s the first text and they don’t know each other)
I would need to think it’s not a catfish or a scammer and not find the girl unattractive for whatever reason be it personality, looks, lifestyle, etc.
Chances are I would respond anyway, but a good compliment or asking me about my interests would be a big boost.
Do you want words of affirmation?
If she’s cute and doesn’t say anything horrifying.
Just ask me to go to a mets game
Politeness and a sly/funny opening message would work. If I feel there’s a conversation worth having it ups the chances of me giving it a chance
I’d answer if it was my wife.
Not seeming like a bot is probably the biggest thing.
lol if a girl actually dm me.
Starting a conversation instead of calling me handsome. Even if you think that, there’s nothing I’m going to do about it unless you happen to live within about half an hour of me, so I’m not interested.
I have 2 female friends who DMed me a few months ago in Reddit posts. One said I gave her hope in how to win her boyfriend back and the other thought I made a thoughtful comment. Strange, but we have been keeping in contact. Both know I am married and not trying to get wirh them. So I guess if they seem authentic. Also, I look to see if they’re hawking their OF; if I see they have an OF in their profille, I don’t accept the invite.
Don’t feel like a bot. Overly flirtatious scam bots with suspicious links to “nudes” that will steal your personal info get sent to guys constantly. That and pig butchering scams that try too hard to get him to think you’re sincerely flirting to he’ll send you money.
Many guys are jaded to DMs, especially if it opens with calling him handsome
Pick something more specific that proves you’re human and paying attention
If she’s not a bot
Probably nothing to be honest with you. Anytime a woman shows me a certain kind of attention I immediately assume it’s a setup or she wants something from me
Anything that isn’t telling me she has content to sell
If it’s a new account it’s obvious bait. But I’ll respond to anyone who DMs me in good faith
I would actually respond to a girl’s dm if it was related to any post and/or comment we have an interest in.