Be very honest, what’s up with her? (18M and 17F)

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im 18M, shes 17F, we both never been in a relationship. we met at our mutual friends (her best friends) party and she came up to me when I was in a pool and we ended up clicking, talking alone outside, while every single other soul at the party rushed away inside, clearly on purpose to let us talk alone. afterwards we kept getting asked separately if we kissed or not by our mates, and saying how we would be cute together.

we started texting back and forth, and we both realised we had ALOT in common, and we were both going to another party the next week (with the same friends, much more people though). at the party she got really drunk early on before I got a chance to speak to her much. she’s new to drinking and basically threw up the whole night, so me and her friend took her inside, then the friend returned to the party and i looked after her on my own. she sat in my arms in a random ass toilet for hours, it felt like she wanted me to make a move, but it didn’t feel right since she was drunk yk? (some of my mates tell me im stupid for not making that move, but fuck thatt) the most i did was brush her hair and stroke her arm and leg. when i tried to leave to go home, she really didn’t want me to, so i crashed the night.

The next morning we hung out for a lil just us two—everyone else went maccies, but we layd on our friend’s bed, watched yt and played fortnite. no moves were made but there was definitely touchiness(like arm touches and pushing). when we were driving her back to her house, she lowk stole my sunglasses and sneakily took them with her, our friends say on purpose, and i saw she was wearing them to the f1 at silverstone. (we are both obsessed) I told her that i miss my sunglasses and i kinda wanna get them back someday and she agreed and said youll get them soon dw, so she IS/WAS open to meeting?

anyway its like a month later now and we still speak every day and duo fortnite , we are getting rather close i think, we have so many inside jokes and just bantery shit and we flirt a decent amount, so here comes the bad bit, i build up the courage to voicenote asking to meet her a few days ago, here’s the transcripts:

ME:

“yo, okay so I was thinking yesterday, that to be honest my calendar is looking mighty nish (empty) next week, so if you’re down we could low key do something go somewhere you know nothing crazy just I thought it could be nice to see each other on something that isn’t just fortnite. I like fortnite don’t get me wrong, I’m better than you at fortnite, fortnites nice. but if you’re up for that let me know, and if you do come low key you could deliver my sunglasses back to me.”

HER:

“okay first of all id like to say that im wayy better than you at fortnite that that that’s a bunch of that is just a false statement that you’ve said there. But next week I can’t do next week, My calendar is very busy next week because my dad’s week off work so we’re doing something most days like every day I’m pretty sure. I can’t do next week. But yeah.” and i just texted her nw after that..

i remember her saying on call that shes not going on holiday this year and when her dads off their all gonna do stuff as if its a holiday, shit timing by me ik haha i was just dying to ask. i don’t know if shes trying to say no nicely, but she said it like a tone that sounded like “i cant do NEXT week” as if shes saying she can do the week after (overthinking)?

oh gets worse, now shes leaving me on opened and delivered more, but shes not letting our snap streak break, infact she sent a snap 2 mins before it would of broken, so shes not trying to cut me out, we also haven’t played fortnite in a few days either (could be pulling away). i really fear shes perfect and if she is pulling away, i don’t see how i could just be friends with someone like this, which would fuck our group up as shes coming to my college next year and shes going to chill in my circle – ty for reading my long fuckass yap

TL;DR:

she came up to me at a party, we quickly clicked and got close pretty fast, but it was all over text, call, and fortnite. i asked if shes free to meet soon , but she said she’s busy next week, and now im noticing slower replies? she still keeps our snap streak going and when we do talk, its still good as always. also not sure if she’s even into me at all or just shy/busy.

thoughts?? ive read thru other ppls posts and they all say if you feel mixed signals theres a high chance it wont wont, but shes worth that low chance

Comments

  1. Salty_Dugtrio Avatar

    You have absolutely nothing to lose.

    Ask her out on a date date and see how it goes. She’s clearly into you and you’re into her.