Everyday I see people settled in relationship they are not happy in, specially women. A friend of mine casually told me that her husband says ” I don’t really want children with you, genetically speaking” and I am like mind blown that someone has stayed in this relationship for years on end.
Another friend of mine , who I have made a post about before, is still in a relationship with someone who cheated on her and is still friends with the person he cheated with and says she is an insecure lady if she thinks he will cheat again.
Probably the absolute worst of all is my cousin who went back to her husband who begged for her forgiveness after slapping her across the face and shoving our Mother when she tried to defend her.
What do I do ? Something seeing all this becomes too much and I just want to shake them out of these relationships. Why do people act like this is how relationships are supposed to be the same old stupid line of ”you have to work hard and make compromises for a relationship”
WTF, I am so bad about this, Just needed to vent.
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Sometimes I wonder if we’re just enabling them by not saying anything. Like maybe they need that kick in the ass to wake up and realize what a crappy deal they got themselves into…
Far too many people stay with people that make them miserable just so they won’t have to sleep alone. Having zero standards for a partner and allowing them to treat you like shit only allows people in the dating pool to continue to be garbage people. If more people had any standards at all for themselves or their partners, the dating pool would have more quality in it. There are good people out there, but no one who settles for the first bum who is willing to tolerate them is going to find them
That’s the price they’re willing to pay to “win” a man
I am absolutely baffled that there are still women dating, marrying, and having children with men at all–I keep saying this lately, but I’m increasingly convinced it’s more from Stockholm syndrome than heterosexuality.
Anyway, I wish them the rapid realization that they’re better off alone, and the well deserved enjoyment of the peace that follows.