I just keep getting rejected (26m) by everyone at this point. ive never had a girl really like me and want me to the point of being in a relationship, I get called a creep for how I look. advice
Being called creep-looking. advice ?
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I just keep getting rejected (26m) by everyone at this point. ive never had a girl really like me and want me to the point of being in a relationship, I get called a creep for how I look. advice
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Maybe you need a make over a change of hairstyle,in the end of the day just be you no matter what people think
If you want general advice, then hygiene, fashion, and fitness. But otherwise it’s hard to give you specific advice without knowing what you look like.
R/Appearanceadvice could be a good idea if you’re comfortable posting there!
Attitude and communications are big signs of how others perceive someone.
Then, cleanliness, facial hair neat or shaved, hair neat or styled, clothes that match and clean, along with shoes that are in good shape.
None of us know your looks. If you don’t look like Freddy Krueger, well some women may like that look. Hmmm 🤔.. ok, start with the easy things.
Best of luck to you.
Appearance wise, getting the right haircut and making sure you have good posture can completely change how a person looks. Also making sure you have good hygiene is always great (more than just taking a shower, getting into basic skin care and learning about your skin type really help if you have problems with oily skin or acne). I can pretty confident say women notice how a guy smells, so a nice body spray/cologne could also help.
How’s your hygiene? What’s your hair look like? Do you groom and trim facial hair? Do you have decent posture? What’s your daily clothing style? You might be doing something you don’t realize is off-putting.
Cam you ask a trusted friend or family member?
Huh, i’d say to not be too pushy (idk you irl so i can say too much) but also ask the people who call you a creep what makes you seem that way or ask someone you know irl
This is exactly what the great prophet of our time Wheat Waffles predicted.
But in all seriousness I’m sorry to hear that no one deserves that sort of treatment just for showing interest.
Here’s what I would say. Regardless of if every girl is calling you a creep, the fact that it’s happening at all means that there needs to be a drastic overhaul of some combination of your style, hairstyle, grooming, hygiene, weight, etc.
But I would say don’t worry about trying to not get called a creep, worry first about getting your looks to an acceptable level before pursuing again. It will help your self confidence and self image too just in general.
Once you get that in order I would work on your game with women, there’s an underrated YT channel that makes good content on how to authentically pursue women he’s called High Integrity Skills.
These things do matter for men:
On top of that if you can wear some perfume, it will be nice. Hope this is helpful.
Seek help from fellow males who don’t have your problem. Friend, coworker perhaps. You need a female’s perspective.
Who is saying that? Ask them what can you do. Maybe look at yourself & think what changes you can make & accept the ones you can’t. Eg, health, fitness, hair & skincare, clothing types, hygiene
Need a photo
Would you sit next to you? 😉
Pics would be helpful.