I (50F) have been really close friends with a fellow woman (55F) for 3 years now. I put her in the inner circle of friends. I’ve invited her and her husband over to my and my husband’s home many times over the last 3 years. I love to cook and bake and she and her husband have come over many times for fun, laughter, food, and drink.
My husband and I went over to their place on Sunday night and had a great time! Today, I received this text from her (she sent to me and her husband):
“Also, as usual, K talks out her ass… I said unemployment rate in Spain is 10%, she said, oh, the unemployment in Spain is 20% maybe even 40%. I just checked. It’s 10.9%. She can’t fucking stand that I’m 10X smarter than her and feels the need to gaslight me 24/7.”
She sent it on accident, obviously. I was on my treadmill when I saw it and responded with 😮💨😪 from my watch and she realized her mistake and apologized.
We are really close and I want to rebuild trust but I can’t help but think that it sounds like she doesn’t even LIKE me.
Complicating matters, she is also my neighbor and so whatever the outcome is between us, I don’t want things to become awkward.
TL;DR my best friend accidentally texted me a rant about me