My boyfriend (26M) and me (28F) had our first arguments this past week. The first was him struggling internally and accusing me of something over text that wasn’t accurate. He shared it was an insecurity he had from past relationships.
We spoke about it in person after and he explained himself and apologize. I also shared how badly it made me feel. Then a couple days later he raised his voice about something that he didn’t clearly communicate to me prior, so I didn’t know how he felt. The raised voice was a more in general voice raise, but felt directed to me although he said it wasn’t. We talked about it the next day and he apologized and shared it was a communication issue.
How do I get past this unease I have from these instances?
TLDR: relationship advice after argument