My bf (18) and I (20) have been dating for about 4 months now and he has been amazing so far. He is caring understandable and all but he occasionally gives glances to other girls who pass by on the street when we walk together. It has never been more than a second and i wouldn’t judge him for doing that because it’s normal. I also think that he paid attention when men passed by us because he likes to look around his surroundings but only situations with girls made me overthink.
But recently there was a situation in the laundry room in our dorm where the girl went in to unload her laundry. while she was unloading, he was looking down the whole time and only stopped when she finished. I should have asked him right on spot about where he was looking but i’m not sure why i did not.
I guess i just wonder if i’m overthinking about the whole situation and he was just waiting for her to unload since she kind of interrupted our discussion or he was purposefully staring at her butt.
I do understand it’s different for everyone and it’s impossible to say for sure but i just wanted to have an opinion of different people on this situation.
TL;DR am i overthinking about my bf looking at other girls
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Bestie, you’re not overthinking, your feelings are totally valid. If something felt off, it’s okay to talk with him about it. Just be honest about how it made you feel. A good convo can clear things up and make you feel more secure. Communication is key!🫶
Everyone looks. One doesn’t just stop finding other people attractive because they’re in a monogamous relationship. Maybe he likes men too.
Start looking at other guys and check his reaction)