We’ve been together from almost a year and its been a constant fight on how he always gets defensive and takes away his phone anytime i even touch it or see it for something very basic as looking at the calculator or ordering food when we’re together? I was never a person who would not trust their partner and snoop into their phone. Im all for privacy but I also believe that using each other’s phone normally shouldn’t be something where you get so defensive? I simply have tried to use it a at times for ordering food or using some simple apps and he has always instantly closed his phone? It really does not make me feel good.
We communicated about it almost 5-6 times that I wish he wouldn’t be so defensive about it and just let me use it sometimes? But now I have stopped trusting him much on this and feel even more the urge to snoop through every app cause what if he is hiding something? It matters to me whether or not it should be allowed and i guess he should respect that and not keep doing this. Yet again he did the same thing. What should i do? I would appreciate some advice
TL;DR bf wont let me see or touch his phone and it does not make me feel good.
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I’m probably double your age and I have never not once ever allowed a partner to use my phone. Basic privacy.
What did he say when you talked to him about it? What was his explanation?