Bf’s mom is trying to separate us

r/

I, 16F, have been with my bf, 17M, for almost a year now (a year in two weeks!). We met at a summer camp and got together after it ended, and bloomed from there. He came over for Thursdays after school to have take out with my family and spent both Saturday night and most of the day Sunday with me. We would usually spend Saturday with my family and go out and what not, while Sunday’s were for us in a way. My family isn’t religious and so is my boyfriend’s family, but we’re growing in our faith and found that spending time in church together has helped us grow in our faith together. We spend a lot of time together, and I enjoy it.

My bf just graduated from high school and is planning on going to college in August. The college isn’t far away (2 hour drive away from home) but is still a major life change from having my bf come over in 10 minutes when I text him to hang out to having to live without him to let him focus on his studies so he can do well in life. As the day for him to leave gets closer, my bf’s mom starts to not allow him to come over. One time it was for the whole weekend, which I was fine with, but she also took away the following weekend, which was the weekend before I left for a week long trip (Sunday-Sunday), meaning I wouldn’t get to see my bf for 3 weeks besides the time we see each other at work. (We both work as summer camp counselors, he’s the lifeguard and I’m just a normal counselor, so we only see each other at lunch and aftercare when there is barely any kids left.) I thought I was fine with it until she told him that he couldn’t come over Thursday and that we won’t be able to hang out for the time being. Mind you, school for me starts up in 2-3 weeks and for him 5 weeks, so idk how long she thinks this time being is, but I hope it isn’t too long. I just want to spend time with my bf before he goes and creates a major life opportunity for himself and family in a different area.

(For background info on his mom, she does verbally abuse my bf and constantly gets into arguments with him that it’s everyday, multiple times a day over the smallest stuff. I have seen it first hand when I went over to his house for the third time in our relationship, and saw how she treated him and his grandpa, her dad. It made my heart hurt and I haven’t been back to the house because of it. She also shifts very quickly between each mood. One day, she’s all happy and tells my bf that he’s so lucky to have me and that he struck diamond, not gold with me, and another day, she’ll tell him that once he sees the pretty girls in college that’ll he’ll abandon me and go with them, which doesn’t help me with that being one of my fears with him. She has done a lot more and it breaks my heart for him, but that is enough context on his mom.)

I don’t know what to do or how to react. This is our last week of camp and that’s it until next year, so that shortens our time together a good bit. What do I do or how should I react?

TL;DR:
Bf’s mom is not letting my bf and I see each other before he leaves for college.