We been dating for couple of months. He invited me to his house after work, I got there at 730pm, he told me I could shower, so I did, I asked him to give me a trash bag to put my dirty work clothes in there so I did. When I left home that night, I forgot the trash bag.
Next day he told me he washed my clothes. I thanked him, but told him he really didn’t have to.
Few days later I went to pick up my clothes, I got them, went home, realized I was missing few things. So I messaged him saying
“Can you find my black top that I must have had with the clothes you washed of mine?? Pleaseeeee 🙁 that’s my favorite top, you also lost my underwear & 1 of my compression sock.”
He replied “There was no black top that I found, everything I gave you is what i found and washed, I never washed a black top. I can look for it maybe but I never washed it. And I didn’t lose your underwear I gave it to you or it fell out of your clothes and is still in my trunk, you also only wore 1 sock to work remember” lololol maybe you should be more organized and not leave your stuff everywhere 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂”
He pissed me off that he said “and not leave your stuff everywhere” I specifically asked for a trash bag so I can gather everything in 1 bag, and also telling me to be more organized??? he lost my clothes and is telling me that? Also, telling me I wore 1 sock to work and saying “remember” as if hes trying to make me look crazy when that was damn oddly not true, that was a weird thing to say. I absolutely would had remembered if I wore 1 compression sock to work. Those socks are thigh high. I confronted him about it and hes saying he was just “teasing me”….. I am seeing this as a red flag of a response.
TLDR – Put clothes in a bag after showering at bf house, he washed clothes, looses few of them, then tells me “maybe you should be more organized and not leave your stuff everywhere” I feel insulted and he says it was just a “tease” Rude or a tease?