30f and 33M TL;DR, boyfriend giving reasons and backing out due to family
30f in relationship with 33M, in relationship since 8-9 months. We were ready for wedding, I asked him if I have to go forward and tell families. We spoke to my family and they were Okayish.
He spoke to his mom but she didn’t agree due to caste differences. He initially said we will marry if your family agrees. My family are more probed towards agreeing. He changed his mind and said it will tough to go to forward without parents. He gave his reasons. Reasons are easy to find. When you have motive to marry no matter what you will marry. Nevertheless I didn’t force and left him on blocked.
I wanna give all girls there before you really move forward in your relationship analyse the wedding situations on either side. Because it’s very hard to take the decision in the harder way.
Did you have any experience like this? If yes, how did you manage? How did you move on? If your boyfriend promised hadn’t then trust me you are gods gifted child. Because marrying your love is not everyone’s cup of tea